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Why You Should Consider Making Your Own Sex Tape

Your own personal porn may be exactly what you need.

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

Have you ever considered making your own sex tape? In a post-Kardashian world, it’s easy to believe that filming your lovemaking is a choice limited to celebrities and show-offs; but that could not be further from the truth. Making your own explicit movie has some unexpected benefits that may be exactly what you need to spice up your mood and your love life.

It will make you closer with your lover. Doing adventurous things with your partner is a bonding experience. It is not often that couples get to enjoy a creative challenge together; and making a sex tape allows you to try new things, both on and off-camera. Overcoming the challenges of planning your private production will bring you closer together, and you may just learn that your lover is a stellar lighting designer, or the next Hollywood director!

It can improve your sex life. This is obvious, but it’s worth considering! Of course, making a sex tape is a fun sexual experience, which will increase your pleasure in the immediate sense. But making a sex tape can also lead to long-term lovemaking improvement. Couples who go back and watch their tapes together can learn from what they see, especially if they discuss the action with their partner.

It’s a very personal memento. It’s an unfortunate fact that our sex lives can change as we age. Who wouldn’t want to keep a treasured keepsake around to recall the good times? With cloud media storage, it’s now possible to preserve your memories indefinitely. Studies have shown that many people have more sex when they are post-retirement age, and you and your lover will definitely appreciate a sexy glimpse into the past.

In the era of internet privacy breeches and revenge porn, there are plenty of reasons to be safe when making any kind of sex tape. But with a trusted partner and the right motivation, making your own erotic film may be just what is needed for an unforgettable bonding experience.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

 

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Aron, A., Norman, C. C., Aron, E. N., Mckenna, C., & Heyman, R. E. (2000). Couples’ shared participation in novel and arousing activities and experienced relationship quality. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 78(2): 273–284. doi:10.1037//0022–3514.78.2.273

Techopedia (n.d.). What is Cloud Storage? https://www.techopedia.com/definition/26535/cloud-storage

Mydailymoment (n.d.). Should You Make A Sex Tape? https://www.mydailymoment.com/love/intimacy/should_you_make_a_sex_tape_.php?page=1

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Get intimate with SexArt star Melody Petite

Gorgeous Mexican babe Melody Petite has proved that very nice things come in small packages this month, taking SexArt by storm with a series of sensational movies that showcase her fiery sex appeal.

The cute 31-year-old Hispanic honey makes her first appearance at the end of episode one of “Getaway” as the incensed girl who catches her boyfriend cheating. Firing off a salvo of furious Spanish – and a well-deserved slap – she immediately embarks on an adventure that sees her hitching a ride with Lady Bug and Ariel Piper Fawn. Melody doesn’t waste too much time grieving for her lost relationship, as her new friends encourage her to have plenty of wild fun. In episode two, she and Lady Bug dance together and then take each other to new heights of pleasure in an explosive sixty-nine. And in episode three, Melody shows she’s just as passionate when it comes to sucking and fucking with Alberto Blanco, her skill and appetite as a lover super-arousing to watch.

But that’s not Melody’s only appearance this month; she also stars in the “Earth” episode of Andrej Lupin’s erotic “Elements” series, giving her powerful sexuality free rein in a very intense encounter with Eric El Gran. Foot fans will love to see her using her pretty feet to jerk him off, but it’s when she rides him in a squat that the scene really catches fire. She is one hot tamale.

In an interview at the start of “Art of Kissing Revisited” on our sister site Viv Thomas, Melody told director Sandra Shine: “I am bisexual. I like kissing, and boobs. When I kiss a girl it’s very soft and romantic. My first time with a girl was a long time ago, I was at college and I kissed my friend. I was nervous because I didn’t know what would happen, I wanted to kiss her, but I didn’t know if she would slap me or something like that… but she was nice and kissed me back!”

We’re delighted this spirited starlet has brought her sizzling sensuality to the screen and chosen to share it with us – and we’re sure you’ll agree that she may be petite in stature, but she has a huge sexual presence!

 

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Porn With a Purpose

How Porn Can, Should, and Does Change the World

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

Conversations about porn and making porn rarely involve discussions about real sex. “It’s just a fantasy” is a commonly repeated trope within the older echelons of the adult industry, uttered with exasperation between scheduling talent and setting up perfectly-lit cumshots. “It’s not supposed to be real. This isn’t sex ed.” The disconnect between sex on screen and sex in real life is supposed to be apparent - but the reality is that more and more people are getting their sexual education through porn. In a world where sexual education is often limited to abstinence, or information about birth control and STI’s at best, people have increasingly turned to adult entertainment to learn about pleasure. Is the adult industry ready for that responsibility?

From a purely theoretical viewpoint, these ideas, which are vestigial remnants of porn’s laissez-faire origins, are accurate. Adult films and pictures are made to be stimulating, to provide the viewer with something that they do not have - a fantasy. Producing monetarily successful adult movies is just as formulaic as producing monetarily successful mainstream movies - gather a few trending taboos, lay them across the skeleton of a scenario, and populate it with the latest talent, and you’re sure to make a little money. We’re not being paid to be sex educators, right?

In reality though, nothing exists in a vacuum, especially not media. People can’t help but be influenced by what they see and experience, particularly when it’s emphasized with a strong emotional response, such as pleasure. Porn is already serving the purpose of sexual education: a NUS survey in 2014 found that well over 50% of UK teens were getting their sexual education from adult movies. People can deny porn’s responsibility in the world, but the fact remains that it is a necessary resource - especially as other resources like social media sites are shutting out sexual content.

Far from needing to be shut down, porn remains to provide the visibility that healthy sex requires. As women have stepped up to take charge of their own careers as actors, producers, and business owners in an industry that has traditionally profited from their bodies, they have, one after another, lifted the veil of shame that surrounded them in the past. Using their open identities as a form of protest, the faces of porn have normalized themselves and the industry more than ever before.

The rise of performers in the spotlight has led to their becoming role models, and more people than ever before view “porn star” as a legitimate career choice, with thousands flocking to independent production methods like webcamming and clip production. Porn’s open identity takes a lot of stress off those in the industry, and has opened up a new conversation in the adult industry: how can we maximize the change we create in the world? What good can we do?

With the weight of secrecy lifted, innovators in the industry have stepped forward to answer those questions. Performer owned-and-operated sites stud the internet with ethical porn options that provide the beauty and fantasy required to entertain, as well as presenting the multifaceted realities of sex and intimacy. Consent has become a prominent storyline, and viewers are more likely to search for “porn for women” than ever before - a category that departs from violent or over-manufactured scenarios and puts intimacy, connection, and trust in the spotlight.

The demystification of porn has changed the world of politics, as well. Suddenly, sex workers are able to speak up in the public sphere and be heard. When Kamala Harris announced her intention to run for the presidency, the sex industry spoke out about her history of anti-sexwork legislation. Stormy Daniels, a porn actress, escort, and stripper, has now famously stood up against the President of the United States. Sex workers are credited with the election of Julia Salazar in Brooklyn, and thousands spoke up against the policies of SESTA-FOSTA, which put workers in more danger than the traffickers it sought to curtail. A Belarusian sex worker is held in Russia, and the world cares. The sex industry has become the adult in the room, stepping forward to speak reason to the squabbling children that rely on them - and finally, with some hesitation, humanity has started to listen.

Nothing changes in a day, and pornography is no exception to that rule. So long as there are people who want to see it, there will be questionable content made without regard for responsibility. However, it is clear that more and more people are demanding something real from an industry that once thrived on empty fantasy. The populace has turned to porn for education, and now, pornographers have stepped forward to become educators, leaders, and role models for those who need them.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com 

 

REFERENCES:

Baker-Whitelaw, G. (2015, December 11). U.K. survey says more than half of sex education comes from porn. https://www.dailydot.com/irl/sex-education-porn-study/

National Union of Students. (2014, November). Student Opinion Survey 2014. https://www.nus.org.uk/Global/SRE%20Research%20Nov%202014.pdf.

Padgett, E. (2018, October 02). How Julia Salazar Became the Patron Politician of Sex Workers. https://www.playboy.com/read/julie-salazar

Tyng, C. M. et al. (2017, Aug 24.) The Influences of Emotion on Learning and Memory. Frontiers in Psychology, 2017(8):1454.

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A hot moment with sexy new star Lena Reif

Gorgeous new erotic star Lena Reif is cuter than a basket of kittens, but disarmingly sexy with it. The 19-year-old Russian beauty’s innocent air is belied by the frankness with which she talks about her voracious appetite for sexual pleasure.

Stunning Lena has only been making movies for a few short months; but she’s already made an indelible impression here at SexArt. In “Pool Girls 2,” she has a sweet and sensuous lesbian liaison with adorable Olivia Sin, while in “Welcome” she puts lucky Michael Fly through his paces in a high-energy fuckfest. Her long brunette hair, mesmerizing blue eyes and flawless body will keep you glued to the screen.

Over on our sister site Viv Thomas, Lena opened up to director Sandra Shine in a charming video interview, where she reveals that she loves sex and travel – so making erotic movies is her dream job.

“I like girls very much. I like girls more than boys!” she admits. “I love sex toys, vibrators. I masturbate every day, morning and evening, even when I am shooting movies. I like kissing, and having my nipples licked. I like to lick pussy.”

See the full interview with this sensational, highly sexual new star here

 

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    Starfire 14 hours ago

    Awesome set with the sweet beauty Sybil.
    Film of this please.

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    JandL 15 hours ago

    We completely agree that there has been great a variety of film styles here recently. We really like that, even if we don't always connect with a every one of them.

    We do like the contrasts between shadow and light in some films--this one did that very well. Though it didn't quite ensnare us, it's always a delight to see Stacy Cruz.

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    par103 19 hours ago

    total agreement....do not understand why so many shoots we need to struggle to see the the beautiful women...its like we are little kids and not allowed to see too much....still have been a member for many years as sexrt comes up with some movies that blow me away from time to time ....but if you look back at movies from few years ago you see much more clarity and lighting in the scenes....with todays technology you would think the opposite to be true

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    JOHANNES BLT 20 hours ago

    I would think that Sybil A has artists lining up to photograph her; she looks like the perfect erotic model. Always a pleasure to see you Sybil ( :

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    ori3noco6 1 day ago

    Anjá....... we've got some very intesting film innovations in here. Credit to Ariel & Andrej & Crew.
    As well as both film and photo collections.....I recommend the trailer as well. Great editing.
    Last but not least: STACY CRUZ!!!!!

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    ori3noco6 1 day ago

    I rather focus on Stacy...as you may imagine. ;)

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    Howard Roark 1 day ago

    Both of these actors are superb. Put them together, and it's magic.
    More of Stacy, please, and of Michael.

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    Eppla 2 days ago

    Thanks, Rose!

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    Numitor 2 days ago

    I lika Stacy, she is very beautiful, but I don't like those movies in the darkness because it is not possible to see the details of horny bodies of actors! Please, add te light!

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    beetle 2 days ago

    Mmmmh, what a hot and sultry vid. I love it!

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