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(More) Random Thoughts on Sex, Style, Image, and Imagination...

You're walking down the street in the city. A gust of wind lifts a pretty girl's skirt. For a tiny sliver of a fleeting moment you get a partial glimpse of her bare ass. Involuntarily, your eyes widen and pulse quickens. And your imagination goes to work. Is she wearing a skimpy thong, or is she bottomless? Will the wind work its magic again? Should you approach her? Does she know? Is she aware of what others have just seen? Is it deliberate, is it a provocation, an invitation? Oh, what a tease this beauty is! And within moments you've imagined scenarios, envisioned outcomes, woven a rich tapestry of fantasy. All based on a quick glimpse of exposed skin.

The film begins. The performers are totally nude. She is wet (although you don't know if the lubricant is spontaneous or synthetic) and eager. He is erect and obviously ready for business. The action begins immediately. She sucks his cock with ravenous abandon, always being sure that her hair is pushed back and not blocking the shot. He eats her pussy, but it's only a brief, seemingly obligatory interlude before the main event. When they fuck it's an athletic and acrobatic performance. The couple bends and twists into camera-pleasing positions that test their stamina and strength. After hitting their marks, somebody, the director one assumes, can be heard off-camera delivering a cue. He pulls out, she hits her knees, he strokes and explodes. She smiles awkwardly as semen smears her elaborate eye make-up.

In the first scenario, the viewer's imagination was ignited by an image that appeared and disappeared instantly. In the second, no shred of imagination is required, all is on view, completely and explicitly. The second scenario can absolutely provide the viewer with excitement and stimulation, but it achieves its effect with blunt force and not a shred of subtlety or story.

Which of these two "viewing experiences" would you consider more erotic? Clearly, if you're sitting down to enjoy some erotic entertainment, it's a lot easier to watch a video than it is to watch a beautiful, mysterious, sexy girl have her skirt blown up on a city street. But is there a way to combine the two extremes?

As a member of SexArt you know the answer to that question, and it's an emphatic "yes!" On one level, sex is sex. She blows him, he eats her, they fuck, he comes — sometimes she does, too. But adding some emotional depth, some human connection, some intimacy, intrigue, and imagination to the simple sex act is where the art comes in.

Sometimes watching people have by-the-numbers sex is enough. But if you're after a richer, more complex, more involving erotic entertainment experience you want more than that. Not more explicit, but more nuanced. Not harder, faster, wilder, or more "extreme," but something believable, relatable, more genuine, and more human.

Would you rather watch "sluts and studs" put on a sex show? Or would you prefer to see "women and men" enjoying each other in honest, passionate, intimate, and imaginative ways? If you chose the second option you're definitely in the right place.

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horsemaster 5 years ago

Very nice essay and POV (irony intended). Yes, the first scene is very worth exploring and experienceing. I like where you are going with this and, of course, that is whole point of SexArt. There is a place for both scenes. Or better yet, a bit of a STORY that includes both scenes and has some sort of bridge between them. Perhaps something that lets us know that the glimpse was, yes, intended by the lady. And/or, the man approaches the lady, and perhaps lets her know what he's just witnessed - and appreciated. And she appreciates his appreciation. I love the nuances being included in the stories on this site. Keep 'em coming!

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    Shere Khan 3 hours ago

    Excellent article and a sad indication of the present state of America.

    If possible, I'd like to see a lot more like this on SexArt and VT.

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    beetle 9 hours ago

    Cute naughty sexy girl. Adorable.

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    VogonPoet 22 hours ago

    Where do I rate this as a perfect 10! It had the atmosphere of watching a committed couple pleasuring each other and caring for each other. In short, it didn't look like they were acting. Very very well done!

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    Witchit 1 day ago

    My partner (like many men something of a connoisseur of pornography) says that this makes him think of Dominica in an entirely new light. It is certainly beautifully shot, but from my point of view the fact that they don't strip naked in the first ten seconds makes a huge contribution to the eroticism. The sequence from 1745 until she comes about a minute later is wonderful, and I love the way she caresses him and pulls him onto her, because that is exactly what I would do--it looks real, it feels real, and although the camera could linger on the afterplay for longer that is just about my only regret. I would love to see them again in another set-what about sneaking off for illicit sex during a dinner party with the threat of being discovered at any moment. And Dominica is radiant at the end.

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    beetle 1 day ago

    PErfect harmonious couple. Absolutely sexy.

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    Rose 1 day ago

    Dominica talking to camera really makes this scene, especially in the closing credits where she talks about how hot it was. Great energy and chemistry, Dominica is a sexy girl and Michael is very well equipped to please her :-)

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    Witchit 2 days ago

    Just found this--that was highly erotic, and as someone else pointed out, deliciously filthy. The cross-dressing was an unexpected turn-on and I really liked the idea of exploring that, but the peeing must be another specialized taste that doesn't do anything for me, having spent all my life trying not to do it at the wrong moment. I once caught a boyfriend trying on my undies and I extracted a memorable deal from him after I got used to the idea. But nothing quite as smokily sexy as this. There might be something in exploring the whole transvestism thing that this movie introduces--I definitely have never seen anything like it and the pair just drown in a syrup of eroticism. The production of these ever so slightly voyeuristic scenes is something that SexArt does really well, and I love the idea of exploring these taboo areas like cross-dressing. I see there is one movie elsewhere on the site where one of the girls crossdresses and although it doesn't quite make a pair with this, it is almost as smoky.

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    HYPERART 2 days ago

    Only run of the mill. Nothing much to see here. Move along.

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    beetle 2 days ago

    Lisa is really a little naughty girl. She offers her sexy naked body in a perfect provocative way. Everything is to see, and I mean ERVERYTING. Perfect poses and really good view of pussy, Anus and nipples. Just gorgeous.

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    Rose 2 days ago

    Lisa Dawn looks sexy in that yellow dress, even better naked :-)

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