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Want better sex? Stop calling it “foreplay.”

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

From magazines in the checkout line to scholarly articles and talk shows, the conversation about good sex is hard to avoid. Everyone wants better sex, and every suggestion comes back to the same thing – foreplay. But perhaps part of the problem is the way we’re framing that conversation. What would happen if we stopped calling it “foreplay”?

It’s commonly said that the way to make sex better for women is foreplay. Touching, kissing, oral sex – all of these fall under the foreplay umbrella. Calling these foreplay suggests that men can or should do them for women, but that they’re not a part of the “real deal” of penetrative sex. But why should these things be optional?

Sex is supposed to be an activity that is pleasurable for both partners. If what we call “foreplay” is the part of sex that makes women more likely to orgasm, then using language that makes it seem like it’s an extra, skippable step is only harmful to female sexuality. Studies have shown that men, on average, take 2–10 minutes to reach orgasm, while women take an average of twenty minutes. Additionally, women who have had one orgasm in a session are more likely to have another. However, according to Planned Parenthood, 30 percent of women have had trouble reaching an orgasm, and as many as 80 percent have difficulty reaching orgasm through vaginal intercourse. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could close that gap?

Perhaps if we stopped treating the non-penetrative aspects of sex like they’re a chore that one can opt out of, sex would be more equitable and enjoyable for both men and women. After all, who doesn’t love making their partner orgasm? Let’s stop calling the parts of sex that women find enjoyable “foreplay” and start calling them what they really are – good, enjoyable SEX.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

 

REFERENCES:

Lenhardt, K. (2017, March 17). Interesting Facts for the Curious Mind. https://www.factretriever.com/orgasm-facts

Sargent, C. (2017, January 19). Can we stop calling it “foreplay”? Because it’s sex, straight up. https://hellogiggles.com/love-sex/foreplay-isnt-actually-foreplay-at-all-its-sex-and-should-be-treated-as-such/

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SexArt wins top XBIZ Europa awards!

We’re so excited to announce that SexArt won two major trophies at the 1st Annual XBIZ Europa Awards in Berlin.

The award for BEST SEX SCENE – LESBIAN went to our movie “Jia,” starring gorgeous redhead Jia Lissa and stunning brunette Lexi Layo, directed by Andrej Lupin and produced by Ariel Piper Fawn.

What’s more, SEXART won the impressive accolade: EROTIC SITE OF THE YEAR!

We couldn’t be more happy and proud. Thanks to all who voted for us, and to our wonderful members for your support. We love what we do here and we hope you do too, so you’d better believe we’re going to do everything in our power to live up to the title in 2018, with the highest caliber erotic filmmaking, and the most beautiful girls yet. You won’t want to miss a moment.

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SexArt movie of the month: August 2018

We’ve had a lot of fun this month at SexArt – and by fun I mean hot, steamy, self-indulgent fun, the kind that leaves you glowing and with a big smile on your face. August 2018 brought us so many amazing new movies, including the visually captivating “Close Up,” director Andrej Lupin using his creative talent to craft an intense erotic encounter between gorgeous Alexis Crystal and her sweet blonde girlfriend Amaris, in intimate close-up detail that puts you right at the center of the action. The accompanying stills from photographer Peter Jones are utterly luscious too.

We also saw the return of superstar redhead Amarna Miller with hot brunette Frida in the opening scene for Team Lupin’s new series “Neighbors.” The girls indulge in some energetic kitchen fucking while their partners are out on the town, begging the question: why is kitchen sex so damned sexy? I have a feeling watching this tale unfold is going to be very rewarding.

Insatiable beauty Henessy A lit up the screen with ebony stud Jesus Reyes in Alis Locanta’s “Fuck Me Again And Again” – you know Henessy means business when she starts the movie wiping the cum from her pussy and eating it, then heads straight for the shower for a follow up fuck, dropping to her knees to suck her man hard again before he gives her more of what she wants – mind-blowing!

That’s just a taster of the heat that was served up this month; but here is my personal – and entirely subjective – top three movies of the month:

Alis Locanta’s “Wet Passion” is a documentary style movie that’s bristling with erotic intensity. Alberto Blanco pours water into Alexis Crystal’s open mouth, drenching her dress, making her nipples stand out hard, then kneels to yank her panties down and lick her wet slit. Alexis is such an uninhibited, high-energy girl, and she doesn’t hold back at all, sucking Alberto’s enormous cock with unbridled passion before he gives her the wild fucking she craves. Superb.

Tina Kay has so much charisma, and in Andrej Lupin’s “Dominate” she shines bright as a dirty-talking dominatrix who puts pretty blonde Katy Sky through her paces. The way Tina takes control of submissive Katy is incredibly hot, and you can tell that both of them are seriously turned on as they eat each other to orgasm. It’s one you’ll definitely want to watch with the volume turned all the way up!

But my absolute favorite movie of the month just has to be Andrej Lupin’s “Darling,” featuring stunning raven-haired Anie Darling and studly Maxmilian Dior. The chemistry between these two, the passion they elicit from each other, and their athletic bodies, all adds up to a very arousing viewing experience. Anie is irresistible, and cute as she is, she’s also not shy about setting the pace and getting exactly what she wants – which is this case is some hard, driving cock and lots of orgasms! She’s bound to have you enthralled from the seductive beginning right through to the breathless climax.

So, did I pick your favorite SexArt movie of August 2018?

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Familiar Strangers

Erotic fiction inspired by Morgan Rodriguez and Vanessa Decker in “Movie Night

I know her body like the back of my hand. The flavor of her skin, the taste of her sweat, her heat. How she likes to be touched. I know she likes it rough sometimes, being pressed at the neck with my fingers deep in her core. I know she likes my tongue inside her as I dig my nails into her thighs. I know what gets her off. I’ve felt her pussy pound on my lips and her sweetness pour into my mouth. I know what she tastes like and I love it. 

But I have no idea what her favorite color is.

I know that her hair stands on end when I kiss her neck. She bites her lips when she is close to climax. Her fingers tremble when she cums, then she holds her breath to elongate her throbbing. Her mouth waters when I kiss her hips. She likes it when I nibble her ankles and can nearly orgasm when I suck her toes. 

But I have no idea what her favorite food is.

She moans when her hair is pulled. She loves feeling my tongue run down her spine and loves it even more when she’s spanked. She likes being punished for absolutely no reason. She likes being gripped hard but licked softly. She cums even harder when her ass is played with. She loves being licked in there, then fingered while being eaten out. Her pussy swells when she’s about to cum. Her clit pokes out past the hood and I can taste it jumping on my tongue like rock candy. 

But I have no idea where she’s from.

I know she likes her fingers in my mouth. She loves it when I bite softly on them. She likes her wrists being kissed and having them held above her head while I grind down on her body. She hates and loves being teased. She likes being licked softly on her clit until her pussy is leaking, then having cool air blown on it until it bursts just from my breath. She likes her inner thighs sucked hard and having hickeys all over them. She loves gripping her legs around my neck so I don’t move from her sweet spot. She likes rocking her hips up and down my face when she’s really wet and slippery. She loves everything I do to her. She loves… me.

But I have no idea who she is.

 

If you enjoy erotic fiction and would like to contribute some of your own, you can email it to fanfiction@metart.com. We don't promise to post it in full, but we will pick out the juiciest bits to share! To see more stories and true confessions, check out our free fiction site, MyErotica.com

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The key to desire: how to unlock this life-enhancing drive

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

The fluttering in your stomach, the tightness in your chest, the heat between your legs – sexual arousal is a nearly universal experience amongst humankind. We feel it when we crave our partners, strangers, even celebrities. For some of us, the desire is overwhelming; for others, barely a note in the margins. Where do these feelings come from? What do we do when it changes?

Our sexuality can play a major role in our quality of life and decision-making processes. As sexual desire ebbs and flows, new dilemmas come with it. Our responses vary – we masturbate, we have promiscuous sex (or avoid sex altogether), we watch porn, we cheat. A crucial key to understanding human sexuality lies in discovering where the desire for sex comes from, and if it can be controlled.

Outside of little blue pills, most advice regarding desire centers around trying to stimulate or repress the emotional state, and pays little attention to what ignites it. According to the ubiquitous mid-century sex study by Masters and Johnson, sexual encounters begin with sexual desire, which then leads to partner-seeking and sexual arousal. However, a University of Amsterdam study from 2004 indicates that we respond physically to highly sexual visuals before our mind even engages with them – meaning that sexual arousal actually precedes sexual desire, instead of the other way around. Sexual desire may be the cognitive overlay we place on top of what our body is already feeling.

Researchers Ellen Laan, Stephanie Both, Walter Everaerd and Mark Spiering examined college students’ physical responses to sexual images, and compared them with self-reported feelings of desire as well as sexual activity following exposure to these images. They contrasted these findings with a control group that was shown neutral images.

Through their series of studies, they found that the body’s entire motor system ignites when shown sexual images. The more intense the visual, the more intense the spinal tendinous impulses they observed. Further, these reactions occurred with no regard to whether the sexual material was consciously recognized. Our bodies are primed for sexual action before our minds have even considered being turned on. Their findings matched what researchers have been finding true in other aspects of our lives – that our brains are awakened to what needs to happen before we are conscious of wanting to do anything.

This means that the key to awakening a lower sex drive is likely increasing arousability – the physical cues that signal us to feel desire. Turning aside from the conventional wisdom of placing the root of the problem on a lack of sexy thoughts, perhaps the focus should instead be on creating the physical, mental, and emotional environment necessary for sexuality to thrive.

So how do we proceed? When sexual desire no longer comes unbidden, how do we summon it? The answer will vary for everyone, but one simple solution may be right there in the research – look at erotica! Porn doesn’t have to be an immediate precursor to sexual activity. Making sexuality and sensuality a part of daily life pushes your body’s sexual responses to stay active. Combined with creating a safe atmosphere for sexuality, enjoying erotic visuals alone or with a partner will help keep sexual arousal – and therefore sexual desire – a hot and fulfilling part of your life. Naturally, SexArt is thrilled to play a role in such a vital and life-enhancing process.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

 

REFERENCES:

Angier, N. (2007) ‘Birds do it, bees do it, people seek the keys to it.’ The New York Times.  April 10 [Online]. Available at: www.nytimes.com/2007/04/10/science/10desi.html

Both, S., Spiering, M., Everaerd, W. and Laan, E. (2004) Sexual behavior and responsiveness to sexual stimuli following laboratory-induced sexual arousal. The Journal of Sex Research, 41 (3)

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Angel Junk

Erotic fiction inspired by Jia Lissa in “Remote Control

When he woke up to find a notification on Twitter—sprinkled with pixie dust, apparently—he tried to rub the sleep out of his eyes. Yet the words remained.

Jia Lissa replied.

Was it a joke? No one would bother to troll an account with 17 followers. Was she an imposter? No. It was Jia in the flesh.

The night before, he had felt clever about the caption he left over a luscious photo of a perfectly naked Jia fondling some oranges: “Everything about Jia is juicy.”

No matter how hard he had tried, his Tweets rarely raised attention. A porn star had never so much as liked one of his Tweets until that morning.

“I’m much juicier in person,” Jia typed, adding a winking emoji.

He was speechless. Dumbfounded, actually.

“Wow,” he typed, deleting the letters just as quickly.

“Now my cock is juicy, gorgeous,” he typed, shaking his head in embarrassment.

He sat trying to piece some words together that might make her laugh and briefly take notice of a not-so-secret admirer.

“Good to the last drop, I bet!” he typed, adding a blushing emoji.

A few minutes later, she replied. “One way to find out. Come over?”

Even a tongue-in-cheek invitation to her abode made his dick stiffen with anticipation. He felt an urge to show his appreciation for her flirtations, and for revealing herself from a million different angles. He unbuttoned his pants and pulled out his cock.

The composition didn’t seem right in his phone’s viewfinder. His thumb wavered above the shutter button. His cock didn’t look so appealing. It was too soft. His skin was a little flabby. And those curly hairs.

“You fucking caveman,” he said to himself. “She doesn’t want to see your junk.”

He put his cock away and sat quietly, cursing that he couldn’t sleep as he sipped his coffee.

See it, obviously not. But feel it?

He remembered a link on one of her appearances that took him a few minutes to find: “Spoil me!”

Her wishlist was a mixture of sexy clothes and undergarments, some equipment to satisfy an apparent photography bug, cosmetics, and sex toys. After a bit of browsing he sent her a link, suggesting that something was missing.

“Damn, I thought it was going to be pizza,” she typed. Then came her follow-up. “OK, I made a wish.”

Sure enough, the biggest, most impressive dildo was on top of her queue.

“When’s it cumming?” she typed, adding a winking emoji for good measure.

“Oh, my cock is well on its way.”

The dildo kind of looked like his cock. He couldn’t resist giving it another inch and adding some girth. He also circumcised it. Nothing more useless than a foreskin on a dildo, he thought. The vanilla color of his cock was spot on—it didn’t get out much.

Weeks went by and he heard nothing from Jia despite Tweeting out a few of her photo shoots. He had resolved that she had just moved on. They were in different time zones, on different wavelengths. Fuck, they operated in a different time and space—what’s the frequency, Jia?

His only hope was that she was enjoying his dildo.

And she was.

He always seemed to find her Tweets in the waking hardness of dawn when pleasant dreams lingered. She had sent him a lonely link that took him to a video.

Jia’s pretty face appeared. She was low to the ground behind a glaring piece of glass—maybe a sliding door. She had a gorgeous smile.

“Holy smokes,” he said.

It seemed Jia had just woken up that morning too when she had filmed herself. Her red hair was a divine mess, feathering out every which way like flames. The light gave her porcelain pale face a radiant glow. At different angles, the color of her eyes shifted from brown to green, like shimmering leaves atop a sturdy branch.


He could hear Jia’s muffled giggles as the tip of his dildo emerged from the bottom of the screen. She stretched out her tongue to wet its tip and dribbled spit on its head. She licked his dildo impossibly slowly. After a little more teasing, she gave the base of his dildo a good clean lick and suctioned it onto the glass in front of her, giving it a blowjob.

She stared at the camera with wanting eyes. He wondered what – who? – was on her mind. A lover? Or perhaps she had in mind the thousands of men and women who could only think of touching themselves when seeing her on screen?

The jerk in her defined shoulder blades told him she was masturbating. He took his balls in one hand and imagined his hands keeping her jiggling tits still.

Jia knew how to please herself and she seemed far along when she spit on his dildo and stumbled up to her feet. Walking towards the camera, she stepped into a ray of sunshine. The strands of a small strip of hair above her clit became emblazoned in orange.

Jia continued to rub the only chubby part of her body. She parted her wings for him and stuck a few fingers inside, turning her wetness inside out. Her pussy glowed.

She turned away from the camera, showing off her perfect little butt, and bent over so she could back up onto his dildo, which was still stuck firmly to the glass. Taking her little ass cheeks in her hands, she opened wide and slowly devoured his dildo whole. A hand on a tall ottoman balanced her as she started to fuck it hard. Her cheeks flattened out against the glass. He could hear her moans between the thudding against the shaking door.

Her legs seemed to be getting tired but he realized she was in the chills of an orgasm when she pulled away, leaving a trail of her juices over his dildo. A strong spurt dotted the glass below—juicier in person, indeed—and she dropped to her knees, still dripping, to rest on the ottoman.

He was jerking himself slowly when finally she looked up and blew a kiss. He felt relief in her pleasure. The video ended abruptly, and so did his patience. He pointed his enthralled dick upwards for a long, steep climb. As he felt the ascension, he had a moment of clarity.

“You are an angel.”

 

If you enjoy erotic fiction and would like to contribute some of your own, you can email it to fanfiction@metart.com. We don't promise to post it in full, but we will pick out the juiciest bits to share! To see more stories and true confessions, check out our free fiction site, MyErotica.com

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Facebook Is Hard on Porn and Soft on Hate

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

Social media giant Facebook recently released statistics regarding how many pieces of sexually explicit content they removed from their platform, and you may be surprised by what you’re not seeing. In the first three months of 2018, Facebook removed over 21 million posts with adult content – over 96 percent of which was detected with their internal flagging software.

As a user, you’d probably never notice that your feed has been “cleaned up.” Facebook estimates that for every 10,000 pieces of content, between seven and nine of them violated its adult nudity and pornography standards. Most of those removed never get seen or reported by real humans. However, if you’re one of so many who have been falsely reported for violating Facebook’s terms, you’ve definitely noticed – accounts that have sexual content removed are given an immediate temporary ban from using the service, and there’s rarely a way to effective contest the charges.

It’s hard to put up much protest about Facebook’s adult content policy at first glance – there’s nothing controversial about trying to keep pornographic posts away from minors. However, the methodology of implementation leaves something to be desired. Not only does using an image scanner to automatically filter photos leave users vulnerable to false reporting, but it fails to effectively separate sexually explicit content from less racy, sex-positive content. Facebook’s policy also polices gender in a very real way, separating male nipples from female ones. Censoring female breasts has a strong correlation to how strongly we sexualize them, and by extension, female bodies, which can be easily extrapolated as contributing to rape culture and sex negativity. This policy also raises serious questions about what constitutes a male and female nipple with regards to transgender individuals.

In contrast to how effectively Facebook censors sexuality is how ineffective it is at removing hate speech. Only 2.5 million posts considered hate speech were removed during the same three-month period, and of those, only 38 percent were caught by the network’s algorithms. Facebook has admitted that it has work to do when it comes to protecting users from hate speech – in a recent incident, its filters removed part of the United States Declaration of Independence as “hate speech.” The site has also been repeatedly criticized for doling out seven-day bans for such bland posts as the oft-repeated “men are trash” and removing posts about real issues such as police brutality and the Orlando shooting. The German government has even reached out to Facebook regarding its lack of proactive response to racism.

Facebook and all media has a responsibility to society to create a nurturing, positive culture for its users – and it is failing in the application of its automatic flagging software. If we lived in a vacuum, one would assume that nudity is more dangerous than racism, violence, and dead bodies. However, the reality of the situation is that removing nonsexual nudity from view does more to stigmatize healthy sexuality and furthers the idea that naked bodies are something to be ashamed of, not celebrated. Perhaps with time, Facebook and other social media sites will be able to distinguish the difference between pornography for adults, and your average unclothed breast.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

 

REFERENCES:

Andrew, Elise. “No, You’re Not ‘Hardwired’ To Stare At Women’s Breasts.” IFLScience, 20 Mar. 2018, www.iflscience.com/brain/no-you-re-not-hardwired-stare-women-s-breasts/

“Facebook Community Help.” Facebook, www.facebook.com/help/community/question/?id=10206454154618310

Meltz, Barbara F. “Nudity and the Kids.” Boston.com, The Boston Globe, 27 Mar. 1989, archive.boston.com/lifestyle/family/articles/1989/03/27/nudity_and_the_kids/?page=full

Merlan, Anna. “Facebook Left Graphic Photo of Dead Woman Up for 36 Hours After Her Boyfriend Allegedly Stabbed Her.” Jezebel, Jezebel.com, 2 June 2016, jezebel.com/facebook-left-graphic-photo-of-dead-woman-up-for-36-hou-1780059778

Packham, Amy. “How Old Your Kids Have To Be To Use Social Media: A Parents’ Guide.” HuffPost UK, HuffPost UK, 29 Nov. 2017, https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/age-limits-facebook-instagram-snapchat-twitter_uk_5a1e77bbe4b0d724fed4c11f

Rosenberg, Eli. “Facebook Censored a Post for ‘Hate Speech.’ It Was the Declaration of Independence.” The Washington Post, WP Company, 5 July 2018, www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-intersect/wp/2018/07/05/facebook-censored-a-post-for-hate-speech-it-was-the-declaration-of-independence/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.9cc08989c53c

Watson, Libby. “Facebook Thinks Saying ‘Men Are Trash’ Is Hate Speech.” Gizmodo, Gizmodo.com, 12 May 2017, gizmodo.com/facebook-thinks-saying-men-are-trash-is-hate-speech-1795170688

Yurieff, Kaya. “Facebook Details How Much ‘Bad’ Content Its Removed from Platform.” CNNMoney, Cable News Network, money.cnn.com/2018/05/15/technology/facebook-transparency-report/index.html

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Waking up with Cherry

Erotic fiction inspired by Cherry Kiss in “Sweetheart”

I learned long ago that it’s best to leave my girl, Cherry, to sleep in when I wake up. No matter how hard my cock is when I rise, it pays dividends to leave her sleeping.

Like this morning. I slipped out of bed and went to make breakfast. I sleep naked so I put on an apron in the kitchen to protect my vitals and left Cherry in bed to awaken in her own time.

I didn’t hear her come in, but I did hear her camera snapping away at my naked ass. There she was, wearing one of my shirts, open to show off her gorgeous body, laughing while she fired off a load of shots of me.

Once she’s awake, I know it’s on. Good job I hadn’t gotten far with preparing the food, because she was all over me in seconds, mouth open, tongue pushed between my lips as I rubbed at her pussy. She was nice and wet, horny for me now she was fully awake, and my dick grew hard fast.

Cherry felt it pressing against her through the apron and pulled the thing out of the way so she could jerk me off. Then she was down on her knees in the kitchen, sucking me deep. I threw that apron off as fast as I could and stood there watching this amazing beauty handling my meat, pumping it with one hand while she sucked it as far into her mouth as she could. Her tongue slid up and down my shaft, her mouth warm around my cock, her eyes flicking from my face to my cock. Honestly, is there any better way to start the day?

But Cherry being Cherry meant she wasn’t just going to tend to my needs, she had her own too. So she stood up and turned around, backing into me and bending over, reaching for the table to support herself. I knew exactly what she wanted. I took hold of my dick and eased it inside her. She was so horny for me that I entered her with no resistance, shaft sliding into her slick slit, her pussy lips almost sucking me inside.

Cherry’s so fit that she can fuck in all kinds of positions, so I wasn’t surprised when she put one foot up on the table, but I was so turned on by it. It meant I could thrust even deeper, and allowed me to enjoy the feel of her ass, the sexy curves of her cheeks pressing into my hands.

I could have cum right then; it was first thing in the morning and I was so turned on that it would have been easy to pump hard and fast into Cherry’s tight wet pussy and fill her with my load. But I wanted more. I pulled out and she turned around to kiss me. I pushed forward and made her sit on the table, then I knelt down between her thighs and licked her pussy. Cherry lay back on the table and wrapped her thighs around my head while I sucked on her clit. She tasted of pussy juice and sex sweat, the tang delighting my tongue. I added two fingers, pushing up into her hole, and she raised her knees to let me finger-bang her. When she started to moan louder, I took it as my cue to stand up and introduce her to my cock again.

Her pussy was at the perfect height for me, I didn’t have to do anything more than stand there and ease myself in, our eyes locked together. Cherry draped one leg over my shoulder and I got off on the way I could push my cock deep inside that tight slot, feeling her ass slap against me with each thrust. She reached down to frig her clit and I grabbed her tits, squeezing them hard as I fucked her faster and faster. She didn’t take her eyes off me, silently willing me to drive my dick in harder.

I can’t say what it was that sent me over the edge – was it the look in Cherry’s eyes? The tight, wet heat of her pussy? The feel of her amazing ass bouncing against me? I don’t know. I didn’t care, either! I carried on fucking her like that, staring into her gorgeous face as I drilled her pussy, until I shot my load inside her. As I pumped my cum as deep inside her hot pussy as I could, she started cumming too, not once breaking eye contact with me.

It was a shame that I had to pull out of her, but when I finally did, I watched my cum drool out of her hole onto the floor beneath her, which broke the spell. We laughed as Cherry grabbed my cock one last time and tugged it affectionately, rubbing the tip over her clit.

“Breakfast ready?” she asked.

“I think I just had mine,” I replied.

 

If you enjoy erotic fiction and would like to contribute some of your own, you can email it to fanfiction@metart.com. We don't promise to post it in full, but we will pick out the juiciest bits to share! To see more stories and true confessions, check out our free fiction site, MyErotica.com

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We All Love Porn

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

The data is in – basically, everyone enjoys porn.

We do it in private, behind closed bathroom and bedroom doors, or maybe with a trusted partner; the use of pornography is as widespread as the stigma against it. From romance novels to raunchy pics and videos, the data adds up – basically, it seems that everyone enjoys erotic entertainment in some form or another. So how many of us are watching, who are we, and what are we searching for?

Analytics suggest that consuming porn, particularly videos viewed over the internet, is a ubiquitous habit. The numbers are staggeringly large, but not surprising – according to statistics released by the internet’s largest porn provider, their site alone averaged 81 million visitors per day in 2017 (28.5 billion visitors for the year), with 24.7 billion searches performed. That translates to roughly 800 searches per second, a statistic which their report helpfully relates to the number of hamburgers per second sold by fast food giant McDonald’s. In total, 595,482 hours of video were uploaded to their site, which is 68 years of porn if watched continuously. That’s only one website, for one year – it’s safe to extrapolate that usage is far higher when considering other sources and forms of erotica that are more difficult to find data on.

When sorted by visits to the same website, the United States tops the ranks of porn use, followed by the United Kingdom, India, Japan, and Canada. Visits soared in some places – particularly Ethiopia, which rose 68 places in the ranking in the course of the year. Unsurprisingly, people seem to watch porn mostly at night, with the highest traffic consistently between 11pm and 1am.

Possibly more surprising is the shrinking gender gap reported in a 10 year meta analysis which found that men had only slightly higher usage numbers than women. According to a report by ATTN, in 2014, 79 percent of 18 to 30-year-old American men watched internet porn at least once per month, barely exceeding 76 percent of 18 to 30-year-old American women. That number is on the rise, too – every top 20 country except Russia saw an increase in female visits versus 2016, and searches for “porn for women” increased over 1400 percent.

Erotic expression is clearly something many of us enjoy, then; but what we choose to partake in encompasses a wide variety. “Lesbian” has long been – and continues to be – the most sought after genre, followed by “hentai” (anime porn), “milf,” “stepmom,” “stepsister,” and “mom.” The search terms that trended were even more interesting – terms like “Rick and Morty” and “Fidget Spinners” suggest novelty is the key to excitement for jaded consumers. Here at SexArt we hope our commitment to producing classy erotica with gorgeous couples enjoying an authentic sexual connection will keep us high on your ‘favorites’ list!

The numbers don’t lie; almost everyone is enjoying some form of pornography. We’re sexual creatures by nature, and erotica is a natural extension and expression of that sexuality. Studies have shown that the enjoyment of erotica increases both arousability and romantic harmony.

Despite current anti-porn sentiment in certain political circles, conscious and responsible porn use is a healthy habit that is past due to be accepted as part of our everyday sex lives.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

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Bahadur, Nina. "Women Are Way More Into Porn Than Many Think, Suggests Survey." The Huffington Post. November 18, 2013. Accessed February 23, 2018. https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/11/18/women-and-porn-survey-ann-summers-sex_n_4297183.html

Both, Stephanie, Spiering, Mark, Everaerd, Walter, and Laan, Ellen. "Sexual behavior and responsiveness to sexual stimuli following laboratory‐induced sexual arousal." The Journal of Sex Research 41, no. 3 (2004): 242-58. doi:10.1080/00224490409552232

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Distracted by my sexy wife

Erotic Fiction inspired by Elena Vega in “Bookworm

I would probably finish reading many more books if not for the effect my reading has on my wife, Elena. Some girls get turned on seeing their man being physical – I have one friend who knows that whenever he’s chopping wood, his girlfriend will soon be sucking his wood. Then there are girls who get wet between the legs if you tell them how hot they are and detail exactly what you want to do to them.

But Elena is unique. She gets turned on watching me read. Which means I have to pick and choose where and when to read if I want to actually get through a book. But it also means that I can turn her on without having to lift a finger. Sundays are ideal for bookworming. I can grab a novel, make myself comfortable on the couch and literally lie in wait for Elena to come find me.

Last Sunday, I spread a ton of books out on the coffee table and set to reading, knowing she’d be in soon enough. She likes to pretend she’s not getting turned on, but I know when she can’t resist; I can sense her, see her out of the corner of my eye trying hard to ignore me.

I moved to the bedroom, making myself even harder to resist. Elena followed me in and snatched the book out of my hands, acting like I had stuff to do, even though we both knew where this was heading.

Then she was straddling me, her tongue pushing into my mouth, seeking out my own. She pressed her pussy against my groin, using her whole body to turn me on. Elena climbed off me to unbutton my pants and I lifted my butt off the bed so she could tug them down. She didn’t bother to pull them off, just got them down far enough to get at my cock.

I was half hard for her already, but the warm wet pleasure her mouth brought to my pole made me thicken immediately. She tried to smile but her mouth was full of my cock and she didn’t want to stop sucking on it.

I watched her as she gazed up at me while taking my dick all the way inside her mouth until it disappeared from sight. Then she pulled away and jerked me off, my cock wet with her saliva, her hand squeezing me gently, pumping me rhythmically.

I could have laid there and watched her jerk me off until she’d made me cum, but I’m not a selfish guy. Elena wanted to fuck and I was happy to oblige. I sat up and peeled off her clothes, pushing her onto her back and kissing her deeply. Then I got down between her creamy thighs to eat her shaved pussy. She was ready for me, her juices pooling between her pussy lips, and as my tongue slid over her clit her body flexed and tensed, getting into a groove.

I spread her lips open with my tongue, tasting her, feeling her juices seep from her hole and spread over her pussy as I licked her faster then slower, hard then soft, driving her wild. Reaching up, I squeezed her perfect titties, pinching her nipples, feeling them grow diamond-hard at my touch.

She smiled with blissful anticipation as I pulled off my pants and flipped her over. She lay on her stomach, resting on her elbows, her legs open just enough for me to ease my throbbing erection into her. It felt so good – she was tight but wet, her pussy gripping me as I pushed inside her hot hole, sliding in until I was balls-deep.

I got up a good rhythm, pulling out nearly all the way, then thrusting back in, rocking my body on hers, my hips resting on her fine ass as I used one hand to fondle her breasts. She turned her head, trying to kiss me, wanting it harder, and I fucked her faster and faster, almost making myself cum.

I eased up my rhythm, taking a minute to cool down, but she was having none of it, getting up on her hands and knees and pressing back at me, her pussy grinding on my cock. She bucked back against me, eager for more hard pounding. We were pressed tightly together as I slammed into her, lifting her into a reverse cowgirl position so she was bouncing in my lap. Her ass rippled with every stroke, and her tits were jiggling in my hands.

I was ready to grab her by the hips and pump so hard I filled her up, but she slowed the pace again by dismounting, pushing me onto my back and climbing back on in cowgirl. She was so wet my cock slid into her smoothly as she sank down on it, impaling her. Now she took things easy, slowing the rhythm, grinding her hips in sensual circles.

I lay there and watched her face, suffused with pleasure as she continued her slow, low rocking. That was too much for me; I threw her back onto the bed and spread her legs apart, pushing my cock inside her and fucking her vigorously. She loved that, loved how I took over, her body tensing suddenly as she unleashed her own orgasm, moaning and raking my back with her nails.

I pulled out and she thrilled me, taking my cock in her hand and stroking it just right, gripping hard and stroking fast, until I shot my load all over her beautiful breasts. She scooped some up with her fingers and licked it off, giving me that sultry, naughty smile that I adore.

As we lay side by side catching our breath, Elena handed me my book; but I had lost all interest in reading by then…

 

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    Rose 3 hours ago

    Beautifully expressed, Witchit – that you for the wonderful feedback. While I do appreciate all our 18 and 19 year old cuties, I think the maturity someone like Emylia brings is a fantastic change of pace. You can see how confident and comfortable she is with her sexuality. Her connection with Michael is so authentic, it's pure pleasure to watch. I'll be delighted to pass on your regards to Emylia; if you've read my interview with her on the blog, you'll be aware she doesn't even know how special she is, and of course that's part of her charm :-)

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    Witchit 4 hours ago

    That was quite beautiful. Quite apart from offering the wonderful gorgeous Emylia and hunky Michael, the sex was almost completely natural, with very few of the stereotyped positions that are so commonly used in mainstream porn. In trying to ensure that no detail is obscured those videos end up leaving the sex looking like an anatomy lesson.

    The camera angles in this scene did so much to emphasise the passion above the physical sex that just about the only improvement I can think of would have been to cut to a close up of Emylia's face when Michael came inside her. That little gasp she gave as he flooded into her was more erotic than a hundred facials, in my opinion.

    One of the other places where SexArt really steps out of the mainstream is when it comes down to the woman's enjoyment, and Emylia came several times, and I did along with her. The way they kissed so frequently also made it seem very real, as did the continued eye contact they had. Even the way Emylia held Michael helped up the erotic tension, although in the first half there was still quite a bit of separation between them as he succumbed to the old business of holding his body away from hers to expose the action. When Emylia was in charge she was so much better about lying on his chest and it did nothing to detract from what must be one of the best scenes on this site.

    A great deal of the erotic heat in sex comes from the reactions of the couple to each other. I would go back to that gasp of pleasure that Emylia gave when Michael came inside her. Did the shot of his come leaking from her add to it? No, but then what possibly could?

    If the directors and actors who work for SexArt want any justification for why the members like creampies (horrible word) this video is it. I would go back, edit out the leaking semen and force every maker of erotic movies to watch it, because I really don't think it gets any better than this.

    Apologies for the essay, but the team produced something extra special here, and I would love it if they did it again and again. It is this kind of passion that makes SexArt the special place it is. Blow a kiss to Emylia from me.

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    The Wolf 4 hours ago

    Great. Finally a creampie. Please continue!

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    beetle 5 hours ago

    Simply sexy, just hot. Fantastic sex scene between a super erotic couple.
    Emylia Argan is so incredibly seductive. When I see her, I melt like ice in the sun. Her beautifully shaped pendulous breasts are among the most beautiful that I know. They belong in my personal hall of the most beautiful breasts in the world.

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    Rose 6 hours ago

    So real, so sexy, so adorable – Emylia is an absolute knockout. Lucky Michael :-)

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    unknown_commenter 7 hours ago

    Well, it’s an excellent set but...nothing kills a picture like shoes with worn out soles. No one noticed? Really?

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    kongetsumade 8 hours ago

    I'm waiting "SEX"art.

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    InLoveWithNightA 15 hours ago

    LILIT EXCITES ME FROM THE FIRST TO LAST PICTURE OF EVERY SINGLE SET! RAAAARRRR!

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    Frien Dzoned 21 hours ago

    Arya Stark :-)

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    Starfire 23 hours ago

    I need a film with this set please.

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