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About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

The data is in – basically, everyone enjoys porn.

We do it in private, behind closed bathroom and bedroom doors, or maybe with a trusted partner; the use of pornography is as widespread as the stigma against it. From romance novels to raunchy pics and videos, the data adds up – basically, it seems that everyone enjoys erotic entertainment in some form or another. So how many of us are watching, who are we, and what are we searching for?

Analytics suggest that consuming porn, particularly videos viewed over the internet, is a ubiquitous habit. The numbers are staggeringly large, but not surprising – according to statistics released by the internet’s largest porn provider, their site alone averaged 81 million visitors per day in 2017 (28.5 billion visitors for the year), with 24.7 billion searches performed. That translates to roughly 800 searches per second, a statistic which their report helpfully relates to the number of hamburgers per second sold by fast food giant McDonald’s. In total, 595,482 hours of video were uploaded to their site, which is 68 years of porn if watched continuously. That’s only one website, for one year – it’s safe to extrapolate that usage is far higher when considering other sources and forms of erotica that are more difficult to find data on.

When sorted by visits to the same website, the United States tops the ranks of porn use, followed by the United Kingdom, India, Japan, and Canada. Visits soared in some places – particularly Ethiopia, which rose 68 places in the ranking in the course of the year. Unsurprisingly, people seem to watch porn mostly at night, with the highest traffic consistently between 11pm and 1am.

Possibly more surprising is the shrinking gender gap reported in a 10 year meta analysis which found that men had only slightly higher usage numbers than women. According to a report by ATTN, in 2014, 79 percent of 18 to 30-year-old American men watched internet porn at least once per month, barely exceeding 76 percent of 18 to 30-year-old American women. That number is on the rise, too – every top 20 country except Russia saw an increase in female visits versus 2016, and searches for “porn for women” increased over 1400 percent.

Erotic expression is clearly something many of us enjoy, then; but what we choose to partake in encompasses a wide variety. “Lesbian” has long been – and continues to be – the most sought after genre, followed by “hentai” (anime porn), “milf,” “stepmom,” “stepsister,” and “mom.” The search terms that trended were even more interesting – terms like “Rick and Morty” and “Fidget Spinners” suggest novelty is the key to excitement for jaded consumers. Here at SexArt we hope our commitment to producing classy erotica with gorgeous couples enjoying an authentic sexual connection will keep us high on your ‘favorites’ list!

The numbers don’t lie; almost everyone is enjoying some form of pornography. We’re sexual creatures by nature, and erotica is a natural extension and expression of that sexuality. Studies have shown that the enjoyment of erotica increases both arousability and romantic harmony.

Despite current anti-porn sentiment in certain political circles, conscious and responsible porn use is a healthy habit that is past due to be accepted as part of our everyday sex lives.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

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Both, Stephanie, Spiering, Mark, Everaerd, Walter, and Laan, Ellen. "Sexual behavior and responsiveness to sexual stimuli following laboratory‐induced sexual arousal." The Journal of Sex Research 41, no. 3 (2004): 242-58. doi:10.1080/00224490409552232

Crandall, Diana. "Here's Who Is Actually Watching Porn." ATTN: December 11, 2015. Accessed February 23, 2018. https://www.attn.com/stories/4626/internet-porn-demographics

Petersen, J. L., and Shibley, J.S. "A meta-analytic review of research on gender differences in sexuality, 1993–2007." PsycNET. Accessed February 23, 2018. http://psycnet.apa.org/record/2009-24669-006

Leigh, Allison. "The Key to Desire." MetArt Blog. Accessed February 23, 2018. https://www.metart.com/blog/20180216/The_key_to_desire__how_to_unlock_this_life_enhancing_drive/

Silver, Curtis. "Pornhub 2017 Year In Review Insights Report Reveals Statistical Proof We Love Porn." Forbes. January 09, 2018. Accessed February 23, 2018. https://www.forbes.com/sites/curtissilver/2018/01/09/pornhub-2017-year-in-review-insights-report-reveals-statistical-proof-we-love-porn/#1897f61424f5

"2017 Year in Review." Pornhub Insights. January 19, 2018. Accessed February 23, 2018. https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2017-year-in-review

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Distracted by my sexy wife

Erotic Fiction inspired by Elena Vega in “Bookworm

I would probably finish reading many more books if not for the effect my reading has on my wife, Elena. Some girls get turned on seeing their man being physical – I have one friend who knows that whenever he’s chopping wood, his girlfriend will soon be sucking his wood. Then there are girls who get wet between the legs if you tell them how hot they are and detail exactly what you want to do to them.

But Elena is unique. She gets turned on watching me read. Which means I have to pick and choose where and when to read if I want to actually get through a book. But it also means that I can turn her on without having to lift a finger. Sundays are ideal for bookworming. I can grab a novel, make myself comfortable on the couch and literally lie in wait for Elena to come find me.

Last Sunday, I spread a ton of books out on the coffee table and set to reading, knowing she’d be in soon enough. She likes to pretend she’s not getting turned on, but I know when she can’t resist; I can sense her, see her out of the corner of my eye trying hard to ignore me.

I moved to the bedroom, making myself even harder to resist. Elena followed me in and snatched the book out of my hands, acting like I had stuff to do, even though we both knew where this was heading.

Then she was straddling me, her tongue pushing into my mouth, seeking out my own. She pressed her pussy against my groin, using her whole body to turn me on. Elena climbed off me to unbutton my pants and I lifted my butt off the bed so she could tug them down. She didn’t bother to pull them off, just got them down far enough to get at my cock.

I was half hard for her already, but the warm wet pleasure her mouth brought to my pole made me thicken immediately. She tried to smile but her mouth was full of my cock and she didn’t want to stop sucking on it.

I watched her as she gazed up at me while taking my dick all the way inside her mouth until it disappeared from sight. Then she pulled away and jerked me off, my cock wet with her saliva, her hand squeezing me gently, pumping me rhythmically.

I could have laid there and watched her jerk me off until she’d made me cum, but I’m not a selfish guy. Elena wanted to fuck and I was happy to oblige. I sat up and peeled off her clothes, pushing her onto her back and kissing her deeply. Then I got down between her creamy thighs to eat her shaved pussy. She was ready for me, her juices pooling between her pussy lips, and as my tongue slid over her clit her body flexed and tensed, getting into a groove.

I spread her lips open with my tongue, tasting her, feeling her juices seep from her hole and spread over her pussy as I licked her faster then slower, hard then soft, driving her wild. Reaching up, I squeezed her perfect titties, pinching her nipples, feeling them grow diamond-hard at my touch.

She smiled with blissful anticipation as I pulled off my pants and flipped her over. She lay on her stomach, resting on her elbows, her legs open just enough for me to ease my throbbing erection into her. It felt so good – she was tight but wet, her pussy gripping me as I pushed inside her hot hole, sliding in until I was balls-deep.

I got up a good rhythm, pulling out nearly all the way, then thrusting back in, rocking my body on hers, my hips resting on her fine ass as I used one hand to fondle her breasts. She turned her head, trying to kiss me, wanting it harder, and I fucked her faster and faster, almost making myself cum.

I eased up my rhythm, taking a minute to cool down, but she was having none of it, getting up on her hands and knees and pressing back at me, her pussy grinding on my cock. She bucked back against me, eager for more hard pounding. We were pressed tightly together as I slammed into her, lifting her into a reverse cowgirl position so she was bouncing in my lap. Her ass rippled with every stroke, and her tits were jiggling in my hands.

I was ready to grab her by the hips and pump so hard I filled her up, but she slowed the pace again by dismounting, pushing me onto my back and climbing back on in cowgirl. She was so wet my cock slid into her smoothly as she sank down on it, impaling her. Now she took things easy, slowing the rhythm, grinding her hips in sensual circles.

I lay there and watched her face, suffused with pleasure as she continued her slow, low rocking. That was too much for me; I threw her back onto the bed and spread her legs apart, pushing my cock inside her and fucking her vigorously. She loved that, loved how I took over, her body tensing suddenly as she unleashed her own orgasm, moaning and raking my back with her nails.

I pulled out and she thrilled me, taking my cock in her hand and stroking it just right, gripping hard and stroking fast, until I shot my load all over her beautiful breasts. She scooped some up with her fingers and licked it off, giving me that sultry, naughty smile that I adore.

As we lay side by side catching our breath, Elena handed me my book; but I had lost all interest in reading by then…

 

If you enjoy erotic fiction and would like to contribute some of your own, you can email it to fanfiction@metart.com. We don't promise to post it in full, but we will pick out the juiciest bits to share! To see more stories and true confessions, check out our free fiction site, MyErotica.com

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SexArt movie of the month: June 2018

A long hot summer needs a great supply of steamy movies, and SexArt’s selection for June 2018 is likely to have you at boiling point. From Anna Rose in vintage style in “Provocation” to fiery Charli Red in “Match,” playful slice-of-life loving in “Bookworm” and delicious pussy munching in “Pancakes,” there has been plenty of action to keep everyone happy and horny. It’s not easy to choose from so much hotness, but here are my three favorite SexArt movies of June 2018:

I love to watch really wild, uninhibited couples going at it hammer and tongs, but sometimes a little romance is refreshing. In “Feel Love,” adorable Jessica Lincoln and Michael Fly make the sweetest pair, Andrej Lupin’s movie successfully portraying an encounter that seems more like tender lovemaking than hardcore porn, albeit explicit enough to satisfy any viewer. The gentle touches and ardent gazes gradually build to passionate sex as the blue-eyed babe rides her man energetically, all the way to a mutual orgasm that leaves them blissfully entwined in each other’s arms.

Lexi Layo is a gorgeous new star for SexArt, and her two part series “Hotline” casts her perfectly as the bored call center worker spending her days fantasizing about her sexy colleagues. Part one has her getting physical with stunning Sabrisse, a surprisingly dominant and demanding lover who rides Lexi’s fingers to an intense climax. But part two is, in my opinion, even better, matching her with busty beauty Emylia Argan, a firm favorite around here who never holds back when it comes to giving and receiving pleasure. It’s sensational to watch girls who are genuinely into girls, and the orgasms are superb as a result.  

Andrej Lupin directed another exceptional series this month, the stellar “Free House,” with four very different episodes, all of them highly arousing. The opener features sexy blonde Katy Sky delaying her departure on her trip to fuck Kristof Cale all around the living room in a vigorous and voracious fuck session. Episode two stars beautiful Tiffany Tatum, and the final episode is a super-hot foursome that finds Linda Sweet and Tera Link getting their fill of cock. But my personal pick, and my favorite scene of the month, is episode three, in which irresistible Katy Rose catches Maxmilian Dior naked. These high-energy humpers don’t even make it to the bedroom; instead they fuck in the hallway, Katy clinging on to the furniture as Max slams up into her. They are a perfect match, both of them with incredible gym-honed physiques, plenty of stamina and an appetite for hard power-fucking, Max is equally happy to take control or to let Katy do the work and ride him ragged. This one will leave you breathless!

So, did I pick your favorite SexArt movie of June 2018?

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Oiled up and horny

Erotic fiction inspired by Lilu Moon and Veronica Leal in “Infinity

I’m a lover through and through – men, women, I love them both in equal measure. Men are wild beasts in bed, their heat builds like a volcano; once it starts, there’s no stopping it, and when they erupt they take no prisoners. Women are different. Women are like the sea, calm and gentle one minute, as wild as a tsunami the next, then calm and still again moments later.

With Lilu, the waters are calm until the waves come crashing down and then it’s everyone hold on tight because this ship’s going over! When she’s horny, she’ll bring her lust straight to me, but she always makes sure it’s me that gets off first; and when Lilu makes you cum, she makes you CUM!

She knocked on my door in the middle of the afternoon this past Sunday, with a look in her eyes that was all sex, and a bottle of massage oil in her hands. She didn’t have to say anything, I just stood aside and let her in, my heart pumping that little bit faster as I closed the door behind her.

She whipped off her dress the moment she walked through the door, and I found her on my couch in just her panties, squirting the oil into a metal pot on my coffee table. I stripped down to my panties and went to join her.

“Want to play?” she asked, waving the pot at me. I dipped my hands in and knelt between her legs, running my hands over her thighs, smearing it all over her, fondling her breasts and kissing her hard, my tongue in her mouth. Lilu turns me on like crazy when she’s horny like this, because I know she’s going to fuck me senseless.

True to form, she took over quickly, dipping her hands into the oil and coating me with it, from my shoulders down to my feet, slathering it on, squeezing my titties, drenching my panties, kissing me wildly, our tongues entwined.

“Let’s see how hard you can cum with your pussy all slick and slippery,” she said, pouring some oil over my body, her hands yanking my panties aside to let it trickle down onto my slit. Then she peeled my panties off as I sat there and spread my knees apart, pressing her face into my pussy, lapping at my oily slit, spreading my lips open with her tongue.

“Yeah, you taste good,” she purred, sitting up on the floor beneath me. She eased two fingers inside me, the oil and my pussy juices combining to give her zero resistance. I was ready to be drilled and Lilu knew it. She turned her hand palm up and fucked me with her two middle fingers, hard and fast, no letting up, intent on making me cum. I was so hot for it I just had to rub at my clit until she had me so horny that all I could do was sit there gripping the seat as her fingers fucked me harder and harder.

She was frigging me so vigorously my breasts were bouncing together, the oil making them slide around, and still she didn’t stop. Her relentless fucking, and her horny attitude, the way she was looking at me while she fucked me, drove me insane. I had to pull her hand out and grab her by the wrist to make her rub my clit when I came, squirting hard, shooting it out between her fingers as they blurred over my clit, splashing it all over the coffee table and into the massage pot.

And still she wasn’t finished with me. Lilu had me turn over onto my knees so she could fuck me from behind and eat my ass, her tongue slippery over my greasy anus, fingers probing me until she was sure I couldn’t cum any more.

Only then, only when she was certain I was done cumming, was it her turn.

I sat her on the couch, pulled her panties off, stuffed them into her mouth and rubbed at her hole. She was as oily as I was, her lips opening like parted wings. I rubbed my slick belly over her slit and clit, coming up to pull the panties from her mouth and kiss her hard, groping her tits. Then I slid right back down and got her pussy in my mouth, sucking on her lips, getting them between my teeth, the way she loves it.

I held her pussy wide open with two fingers, dipped my tongue inside her gaping hole and rolled it around, watching her face, eyes closed, mouth open in ecstasy. Then I entered her with two fingers, drilling her hard like she had done me, pleased that she too had to reach down and play with that sweet clit of hers as I finger-fucked her.

She slapped at her clit until her body began to buck to my touch, jerking and shaking as she came on my hand, my thumb pressed hard on her clit, her pussy lips slick around my fingers as I watched her cry out. She looks so wild when she cums, like she doesn’t even know where she is.

When she was done, she sat me down and smiled, grinding her oily pussy against me, her eyes closing again as she suddenly felt the urge to fuck some more, surprised that I’d reached down and pushed my two fingers right back inside her. I fucked her some more, hard and fast, and she knelt up, giving me plenty of room to screw her.

I slipped out from beneath her easily since we were so oily, and came in from behind to finger her hard, loving how she was reacting. She was twitching violently, lost in her own orgasm as I pumped my fingers in and out of her, holding her as tight as I could, getting off on her body’s reaction.

As she came down from her orgasmic plateau, I sat back down, but she wasn’t done with me. Lilu straddled me and rubbed her pussy all the way up and down my waist. It was so unexpected, and so horny, that I just couldn’t help but reach for my pussy again to rub my clit frantically. I came hard again, surprising myself, squirting harder than before, showering the floor with jets of my own slick oils, splashing Lilu with it as she sat and watched, delighted.

You’d think this kind of hot sex happens rarely, but with Lilu, these wild moods often strike – and when they do, I just hang on and enjoy the ride!

 

If you enjoy erotic fiction and would like to contribute some of your own, you can email it to fanfiction@metart.com. We don't promise to post it in full, but we will pick out the juiciest bits to share! To see more stories and true confessions, check out our free fiction site, MyErotica.com

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Busty erotic star Emylia Argan tells all to SexArt

Deliciously desirable and with the most tempting curves, Emylia Argan is one of our most popular erotic stars. She brings a charming playfulness and warmth to her scenes, creating a genuine connection with her partners. Since making her SexArt debut back in 2013 in the legendary “Snow Fun” series, Emylia has appeared in 21 movies, with a three-year hiatus in the middle, during which time she has honed her skills as a photo editor for director Andrej Lupin’s production team. Now she’s back in front of the cameras, and looking hotter than ever, with an earthy, womanly sex appeal that is compelling to watch. Her starring role in the five-part series “Hair” showed off her acting ability and endearing lack of vanity, as well as the heat and passion she brings to every encounter.

Slender with naturally large breasts and a lovely smile, Emylia is the ideal girlfriend-next-door – and having been lucky enough to meet her while on location with Team Lupin, I can also report that she’s sweet, modest, friendly and downright adorable! Read on to learn more about her…

Emylia, please tell us a bit about yourself.

EA: I am from a small city in the east of the Czech Republic. Now I live in another small city, but in the south. I’m 27 years old. Oh shit, I am oooooold! I love classic music. Sometimes electro swing, house, rock; but I hate disco!

How did you get into nude modeling?

EA: For two years I worked in a strip show and one day, a friend came by to see me and suggested we could have pictures taken together, and I thought, why not? I came to the agency and suddenly I was doing porn! At that time I did not have a boyfriend and this was a new experience. I started making movies in May 2012 and stopped in January 2013, and started again in August 2017. For those three years I worked for SexArt, [for Andrej Lupin and Ariel Piper Fawn’s production team] but doing photo editing, not making movies. I love shooting the comedies [the movie introductions] because it can be really funny, and I love making dramatic, erotic films, this is perfect for me. And sometimes I do look at my own movies on SexArt!

What do you like best about your appearance?

EA: I don’t know; a lot of people love my smile, so I would have to say that. I am a normal girl, nothing more. I don’t think I have a particularly great figure, but I do go to the gym – to chat to my friends!

How would you describe yourself?

EA: My personality is complicated. I am Taurus and I get along with most people. I am romantic, of course – I am a woman! I love everything about sex. I am sometimes dominant, sometimes submissive.

Are you bisexual?

EA:  Yes I am, bisexual, but I prefer men. But my first orgasm with a girl was in my personal life, not on camera. I love Paula Shy, she is my best friend! 

What turns you on?

EA: Kissing. I don’t have a favorite position because I love everything! And I love sex toys, Hitachi is the best! I don’t have a sexual fantasy, I love real sex.

Have you ever had a threesome in your personal life?

EA:  No, never in my normal life. I am selfish!

Is there anything you would like to say to your fans?

EA:  I would like to say that I thank you very much for watching me, and I appreciate all your support. I do not belong among the top beautiful girls in this business and I know it. I will always look for you with my smile, eyes and chemistry. Thank you for believing in me, and I love to read your beautiful comments. Here is a photo for you:

 

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Top SexArt star Jia Lissa shares her secrets

Stunning redhead Jia Lissa is a rising star across the MetArt Network, her sweet and pretty photosets delighting members here at SexArt just as much as her kinky bondage-themed movies raise eyebrows over at The Life Erotic. She’s a delicious sight, with her long red hair – and yes, she is a natural redhead, as her fiery bush attests! – cute freckles, and slender figure. Small, pert breasts, long legs and a perfect ass all add up to one very seductive package. But what really makes Jia stand out is the authentic sexuality she brings to her movies.

As members will know, SexArt specializes in highly erotic boy-girl and girl-girl movies, so it’s remarkable to see that a solo video is currently our top rated film. “Remote Control” directed by Don Caravaggio, features Jia following instructions to go to a country house, where she discovers a huge, cock shaped dildo and lavishes attention on it, sucking it deep before riding it to a string of intense orgasms. It’s been number one ever since its release in March, with a superb rating of 9.7 – and if you’ve watched it, you’ll understand why. Jia’s beauty and uninhibited enjoyment of her body makes for a truly wonderful spectacle.

If you’d like to know more about this irresistible star, here are a few highlights from her recent video interview with director Sandra Shine for our sister site Viv Thomas…

Hello Jia Lissa, please tell us about yourself.

JL: I’m from Moscow, Russia. It’s a cold, cold country, but I’m hot. I’m 21 years old.

When did you start nude modeling?

JL: I just started a few months ago, and I love it so much. I like to share. A friend told me that they knew a photographer who would be interested in shooting me. So I thought okay, why not try it? After my first shoot I thought they would never call me back again – but here I am.

Is red your real hair color?

JL: Absolutely, I’m a 100 percent natural redhead. I can prove it in three ways: first my childhood pictures; second my hair; and third is, if you spend the night with a redhead, you’ll know…

Are you into girls for real?

JL: Yes, I like girls a lot. Before I started modeling I really liked Sybil A’s sets, so to meet the girl from the pictures and have sex with her [for the Viv Thomas movie "Glamorous"] was – phew! To be honest with you, I just like girls. Can you blame me?

What turns you on?

JL: I like making fantasies come true. I like to try different things with my partner, to experiment. One day I like it to be soft, and the next day I like it to be a bit crazy and wild. It’s like if you eat cake every day, you want chocolate cake one day, another day strawberry. I like role play, I like teasing a lot, I love kissing – who doesn’t love it?

Do you like to be dominant?

JL: I like some control. I like to be on top because then I can take what I want.

When you are at home and there are no beautiful girls around, do you like playing with yourself?

JL: Yes, I have handcuffs, I have ropes – I like to play with myself, I can tie myself up. I have many toys: I have a Hitachi and many different sized butt plugs. Oh, and I like spanking.

Do you have any hobbies other than sex?

I just finished musical college. I can play not just with my pussy, I can play other instruments too! But if you ask me to play my guitar, I’d rather play with my pussy for you and I’m sure you’d rather watch that, than my guitar skills!

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Is porn cheating?

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

When it comes to infidelity, where does fantasy cross the line?

Sexuality, while an integral part of the human experience, is something that continues to polarize pundits and plain folks alike. With adult entertainment at the forefront of politics across the US and UK right now, opinions are not in short supply. Something that continues to perplex us is where pornography sits in the scope of our marriages and relationships. Is viewing porn cheating, or is the link between erotic materials and romance more complex than that?

A new study released in February of this year sought to answer that question by comparing opinions on pornography with other cultural attitudes in the United States and Spain. In examining the data gathered from University of Florida and the University of Alicante, researchers found that an overwhelming number of participants (73% in USA and 77% in Spain) believe that viewing erotic materials is not cheating.

In the sample that did find porn use to be infidelity, researchers found strong correlations to their lifestyles, including religiosity, relationship status, and overall attitudes on jealousy and infidelity. A participant from the United States was more likely to view porn as cheating, as was someone who did not use erotic materials themselves, or was single (and therefore perhaps more likely to be idealistically rigid about their attitudes toward relationships). Having low self-esteem was also a factor tied to attitudes on porn and infidelity, but only in participants from the US. Interestingly, there weren’t any gender differences - women were not more likely than men to view porn as cheating.

Church attendance was the strongest predictor of a participant’s attitude toward erotic materials and infidelity. In respondents from the US, being religious predicted the view that porn is cheating, whereas Spanish respondents showed no such effect. About 70% of Spaniards identify as Catholics, but only around 9% of citizens attend church at least monthly. In contrast, as many as 42% of Americans attend church weekly. This suggests that it is attendance of church services, rather than self-identification as religious, that has an impact on one’s views on pornography.

Also worth noting is that Europeans, including Spanish Catholics, tend to be less punitive about sex in general, and also less dogmatic and energized about their religion, compared to many US evangelical churchgoers. These differences may also account for the differentiation between the two countries regarding whether or not low self-esteem played a factor in participants’ opinions on infidelity -  it is hardly a stretch to think that those with a pronounced desire to belong to a group may feel more pressure to conform to church ideologies.

So is the answer to avoiding marital strife a detailed survey of your partner’s demographics? Are our cultural attitudes toward porn immutable? Hardly! Studies have shown that porn use adds more positive things to your relationship than negative, including improved sexual communication - if things are properly discussed. Couples have reported that they perceived porn as being linked to more sexual experimentation and sexual comfort in their relationships. Viewing pornography is also tied to higher levels of arousability, which can keep a sexual relationship alive.

As with all things in a partnership, communication is key - talk to your partner about their attitudes to porn and infidelity. While this is a conversation that many avoid due to fear of ensuing conflict, discussing these things early on can allow couples to navigate potential problems before they occur. Odds are that your partner will be amenable to your viewing habits, and honesty is far preferable to introducing secrecy and deception into your relationship, which is more likely to hurt your partner. Instead of undermining trust, use the conversation as an opportunity to promote understanding and develop your sexuality together. Strong relationships are built upon strong communication - something no amount of porn can damage or replace. We hope SexArt will play a role in that communication.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

REFERENCES:

“Dogmatic and Spiritual Religion.” Psychology Today. Accessed March 26, 2018. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/out-the-darkness/201412/dogmatic-and-spiritual-religion

“Is Watching Pornography a Form of Cheating? It Depends.” Psychology Today. Accessed March 26, 2018. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/201802/is-watching-pornography-form-cheating-it-depends

“Why Secrets Can Ruin Relationships.” Psychology Today. Accessed March 26, 2018. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201609/why-secrets-can-ruin-relationships

Stephanie Both, Mark Spiering, Walter Everaerd, and Ellen Laan. “Sexual Behavior and Responsiveness to Sexual Stimuli following Laboratory‐induced Sexual Arousal.” The Journal of Sex Research 41, no. 3 (08 2004): 242–58. doi:10.1080/00224490409552232.

Taylor Kohut, William A. Fisher, and Lorne Campbell. “Perceived Effects of Pornography on the Couple Relationship: Initial Findings of Open-Ended, Participant-Informed, “Bottom-Up” Research.” Archives of Sexual Behavior 46, no. 2 (07, 2016): 585–602. doi:10.1007/s10508–016–0783–6.

Charles Negy, Diego Plaza, Abilio Reig-Ferrer, and Maria Dolores Fernandez-Pascual. “Is Viewing Sexually Explicit Material Cheating on Your Partner? A Comparison Between the United States and Spain.” Archives of Sexual Behavior 47, no. 3 (02, 2018): 737–45. doi:10.1007/s10508–017–1125-z.

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SexArt movie of the month: May 2018

Sex Art’s movies throughout May have presented themselves like a box of your favorite candies – they’re all so delicious it’s almost impossible to choose the best one. Tasty treats this month include top models Lana Seymour – she of the dazzling smile – and busty beauty Emylia Argan getting together for the first time in “Transparency” for some exquisite face sitting. Gorgeous Elena Vega plays lusty secretary in “Real About You,” dreaming of screwing her boss, Maxmilian Dior – a movie with a fantastic finish as Elena takes Max in hand and strokes him off over her lovely breasts. Alis Locanta’s “Voyeurism Reloaded” has a spectacular opening sequence, a technically impressive and highly arousing tracking shot following sexy Silvia Dellai as she plays exhibitionist for Juan Lucho. And we haven’t even mentioned the oiled up, pussy sucking, squirting, lesbian sex fest that is “Infinity,” with irresistible and insatiable Lilu Moon and Veronica Leal.

It’s an indicator of how spoilt for choice we were that none of these made my top three this month – what a tough decision it was! But here are my three favorite SexArt movies of May 2018:

Stunning French fox Clea Gaultier stars in Alis Locanta’s “Celebration Oral Sex Reloaded,” treating Juan Lucho to some of the wettest, most enthusiastic, deep and voracious cocksucking ever. Watching horny Clea grind her soaked pussy on Juan’s mouth as he kneels at her feet, and then wrestle his huge dick out of his pants and into her mouth, is spellbinding. This movie rejects all foreplay and fucking to concentrate on nothing but oral pleasure, including a superb sideways sixty-nine – although if you watch through the closing credits, you’ll see Clea just couldn’t resist riding Juan when they thought the cameras weren’t running!

Watching beautiful blondes Cherry Kiss and Katy Sky together in Andrej Lupin’s “Little Delay” will definitely have you wishing you were there, as naughty Cherry can’t resist interrupting her blue-eyed girlfriend as she gets ready to go out. Cherry has become a real favorite of mine, a charming, sexually uninhibited knockout who can’t keep her hands to herself. Cute Katy succumbs easily, getting licked and fingered to a noisy orgasm, and eating Cherry’s juicy shaved slit until she’s shaking through a powerful climax of her own. They look so perfect together you definitely won’t want to miss it.

But my absolute favorite this moth was adorable Lady Bug riding the hell out of Michael Fly in Andrej Lupin’s “Backlash.” Cute and perky as a basket of kittens, Lady drags her man’s attention away from his cellphone by sucking his brains out through his cock, treating his enormous erection to the blowjob of his dreams. When she’s in no doubt she has his full attention, she humps him in cowgirl, reverse cowgirl and missionary, bouncing and grinding like a girl on a mission to extract the maximum enjoyment from every second of her life. A petite sweetie with an immense sexual appetite, she’s an absolute joy to watch.  

So, did I pick your favorite SexArt movie of May 2018?

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A hot moment with SexArt star Cherry Kiss

Blonde bombshell Cherry Kiss is a natural charmer, her radiant smile so captivating and her uninhibited sexual energy so infectious that her lucky costars always seem to be more than a little in love with her. Since making her SexArt debut last summer, she’s appeared in seven super-hot movies, proving herself to be just as irresistible to girls as to guys. Her latest, “Little Delay” with Katy Sky, received an extremely enthusiastic response, as Cherry takes the dominant role, stripping Katy and finger-banging her audibly wet pussy to an explosive orgasm.

From her cute dimples to her pretty toes and all points between, Cherry is sex appeal personified. Here are a few highlights from her recent video interview with director Alis Locanta for our sister site Viv Thomas…

Cherry, where are you from?

CK: I’m from Serbia and I’m 25 years old.

How did you get into making movies?

CK: I started in this business as a make-up artist, and I liked it. I was a very shy girl!

Which part of your body do you like best?

CK: You will laugh… It’s my eyelashes!

How do you keep in shape?

CK: To be honest, it’s genetic.

What do you like most about making movies?

CK: What I enjoy the most about making movies is the energy, and all the complex-free people – which is something you will find a lot of in this business, because we are free. The energy is always good, it’s fun, and when work is fun it’s perfect.

Are you dominant or submissive?

CK: 50/50. It depends who I am with. With guys I like to be more dominant. Although with my ex-boyfriend it was 50/50.

Have you had sex with a girl in your private life?

CK: I’ve had a girl in my private life, as part of an orgy!

What is your favorite sex position?

CK: Believe it or not, it’s missionary. I like to do crazy stuff, but the simpler it is, it gives me more pleasure.

What’s the most unusual place you’ve ever had sex?

CK: In my private life it was when I lost my virginity, in a cemetery, because I was hiding from my father. I was staying at my grandma’s house and that was the only place where there was no light.

Do you like to masturbate?

CK: The truth is, I don’t like to masturbate because there’s always somebody that can do it for me!

Do you have a favorite sexual fantasy?

CK: It’s gays. I love it.

What kind of men do you prefer?

CK: The physical side means absolutely nothing to me. All my past boyfriends were different looking, what I fall in love with is their mind and what’s in their heart.

Are you romantic?

CK: I can be, when I really love somebody. But usually I am not – it’s boring.

What are your plans for the future?

CK: My biggest dream is to have my own make-up brand in my country. I’ve already started working on it, so we’ll see.

Do you have a message for your fans?

CK: I hope you guys are enjoying watching my scenes… Kiss from Cherry Kiss!

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Dirty talk with SexArt star Alexis Crystal

Gorgeous erotic model Alexis Crystal is one of the reigning queens of SexArt, having appeared in so many sensational movies since her debut in 2013, and with no signs of slowing down. We’ve seen this charming, high-energy beauty develop from sweet newbie to the confident, powerfully sexual woman she is today. Alexis always seems to be having so much fun on screen, and her partners – whether male or female – can’t stop smiling as she lavishes her expert oral attention on them. The brown-eyed babe is so funny, charming and sexy you can’t help but love her. Here are a few highlights from her recent video interview with director Alis Locanta for our sister site Viv Thomas…

Alexis, please tell us about yourself.

AC: I’m 25 years old, and I’m from Prague in the Czech Republic. My hobby is my work. I really like my job, but it’s also my hobby. I like to cook a lot, mainly sweets, but healthy sweets, because I’m trying not to eat sugar. I love going to the gym, it’s my big passion; if I’m feeling really tired and I go to the gym I get so much energy – it’s so good for me. I like going out with my friends, for a run, or good food, or walking around Prague. I love shopping, of course, like every girl, especially if I see a sale, I get crazy. That’s why I have so many shoes and clothes.

What is your favorite part of your body?

AC: I like my hair. It’s long and I don’t use any color on it, it’s natural, so I don’t need to go to the hairdresser every two weeks. Which is good, because I have to get my nails manicured every two weeks and I hate doing that. I like my body, although I don’t like my nose. I don’t think anyone likes his or her body 100 percent, there’s always something that you want to change or make better. If someone is saying they love themselves or that they’re perfect, I’m sure they’re not feeling like that inside.

What do you like most about your work?

AC: For me it’s everything together. The people who are not in the business, they think that we are just going to work to fuck, but it’s not like that. I really like the people in this business, because they are so different, and I’m always meeting someone new. It’s amazing, because I cannot imagine working in an office. I have been shooting for seven years now, I cannot imagine having worked in an office with the same ten people for seven years – I think it would have killed me. With this work I also like the shooting, the atmosphere on the productions, it’s like a family, and I can walk naked and nobody cares – it’s really so amazing.

Are you submissive or dominant?

AC: I like to be submissive during sex in my private life, and in my actual life I think I am quite dominant. In a relationship I am not the girl who will just shut up, I will say what I think and give my opinion. But in work I like to play roles, I really liked it when I was playing the dominant role with a guy and I was slapping his cock – it was funny.

What kind of men do you like?

AC: I like a lot of things. Of course, it depends on the situation. Like where you are, what you’re doing, things like that, but basically, I like men who are very masculine, I could never imagine having a boyfriend who spends longer in the bathroom than me, doing his hair for two hours. I was dating one guy and I got really turned on by his chest, when I touched it made me feel like, ‘Oh god, come on, fuck me.’

Do you have a favorite sex position?

AC: I like doggy and cowgirl, and I also like spoon, but it’s a spoon where I’m lying on my hip with one leg in the air while he fucks me.

Do you masturbate with your fingers or a toy?

AC: The best toy in the world is the Hitachi Magic Wand. If I want to masturbate, I just use the Hitachi and I’m done in two minutes because it’s so strong. I can’t imagine masturbating at home with my fingers, because I have a Hitachi. Some girls don’t like the Hitachi, they say it’s too strong for their clitoris, they prefer toys like the Womanizer, you put it on your clit and it sucks it!

Do you have any unfulfilled sexual fantasies?

AC: I’ve always said that my dream was to have sex on the beach, but it’s not. Having sex on the beach, it would be a nightmare, the sand would get everywhere. My sexual fantasy is very romantic, it’s to have sex in a really exotic place like a jungle, or on a beach in the Maldives or Cuba, but not in Italy or Spain – I’m so sorry. I’d like to have sex with a Spanish airport security guy, they are so amazing – uniforms make me horny.

Any message for your fans?

AC: Thank you, guys, for watching me. I hope you love me as I love you. Sending you a lot of love. I love you!

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    Rose 5 hours ago

    Linda always brings great energy and personality to her scenes, and this is no exception! I was hoping they would start making out in the elevator though... "Lift" starring Whitney Conroy and Margot is still one of my all-time favorite SexArt movies :-)

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    Starfire 21 hours ago

    Beautiful girl.
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    Librarian by day, booked at night, speaks volumes.

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    Senor667 2 days ago

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    Lovelez 2 days ago

    She looks too perfect. She needs someone to muss her up all over. Pull this, yank that, lick this and suck on that. Until then I refuse to believe she is real.

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    Wonderful part 2.
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    Doggleboon 2 days ago

    First time I've seen Katy have what appears to be a real orgasm. Leave it to Max.

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