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Five Practical Life Lessons I Learned From Non-Monogamy

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

Ethical non-monogamy is on the rise among Millennials. A recent YouGov survey found that in 1,000 people aged between 18 and 30, 11 percent of them – that’s a little better than one in ten – had engaged in sexual or romantic activities with someone other than their partner, with their partner’s consent. That’s a huge shift in social mores, especially in the somewhat puritanical United States. But whether you like to fall in love with one person or many, polyamory and ethical non-monogamy have a lot to teach us, and the increase in relationship consciousness can only serve to improve our daily lives. I’ve been practicing non-monogamy in one form or another for almost a decade, and the lessons I have learned have become an invaluable part of my life and growth. These are my top five:

  • * Communication is key. My personal experience suggests there is literally nothing in life that isn’t made easier by frequent, clear communication. Having one romantic partner can be difficult enough, but more than one increases complications exponentially, even in the smoothest of relationships. It is often said that polyamorous people “communicate to death,” but learning how to discuss your needs and desires (and what the difference is between the two) without making demands or placing blame will make every interaction with another reasonable adult easier. There are countless techniques to enhance listening and good communication, and studying them and improving our skills are part of our responsibility as mature adults who are continuously striving to do and be better.
  • * Have a good relationship with yourself. Take time to learn what it is that you want. Dig deep into your desires and find their origins in order to better understand yourself. Explore your own boundaries and defend them as your own greatest champion. Get in touch with your emotions and where they stem from. In polyamory this is often discussed in terms of jealousy, since jealousy usually blossoms out of personal insecurities – but it is useful across the spectrum. Knowing the deeper reasoning for an emotion makes it easier to address, and prevents us from putting proverbial bandages over tightly held spiritual wounds. Take care of yourself, and you’ll also find that you are less upset at others for not “taking care” of you.
  • * My feelings are my responsibility. What I do with my emotions is up to me. This doesn’t mean that everything is my fault, or that other people are blameless. What it does mean is that it is up to me to handle my feelings in a responsible manner. Emotions can become tyrants, if we let them, and it’s important to stop that process before it gets too far along in demanding that we – and our loved ones – bow to them. Acknowledging the feeling, putting a name to it, and asking ourselves why we feel that way are critical steps to take in processing our emotional responses. Expecting that our significant other is supposed to tend to our every emotional need is a surefire way to make them feel trapped, and breeds resentment.
  • * Consent applies to more than just sex. Asking permission and discussing plans of action are useful tools that should be applied to all interactions that involve more than just yourself. The more you apply the principles of active consent to everyday situations, the more likely it is that you can accomplish your goals without railroading your significant others, business partners, and friends. In non-monogamy, consent discussions play a primary role in assuring that everyone in a relationship is happy and getting their needs met, and that principle is universally applicable. This is especially useful in emotionally heavy conversations, where it helps verify that all parties are equally present for the subject at hand (like double checking before discussing a big topic, or asking before offering an upset friend unsolicited advice). Discussing consent allows us to meet our own needs as well as those of others without violating the boundaries of those we care about.
  • * People are more important than our relationships with them. Sometimes people are not willing or able to meet our needs, desires, or expectations, and it is crucial to remember that it’s okay! Every individual is inherently valuable, regardless of whether they are meeting our expectations or not. Individuals are more important than what we can get from them, and we would do well to remember that sometimes that means a different solution than the one we had pictured. Actively valuing other people can sometimes look like leaving them alone, as opposed to the obsessive love that we are conditioned for. Having respect for the whole person allows the whole person to bloom, instead of just the parts we choose to address.

Have you ever tried any form of non-monogamy? Do you utilize active consent in your daily life? What are some life lessons that you have learned from your relationships? Please share your experiences and knowledge in the comments section so that we may all learn together!

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

 

REFERENCES:

Banks, R. (2014, December 10). Taking Responsibility for Your Emotional Reactions. http://mindfulnessremedy.com/taking-responsibility-emotional-reactions

Barker, M.J. (2017, December 30). Consensual Relationships Revisited: Only with Consent. https://www.rewriting-the-rules.com/conflict-break-up/consensual-relationships-revisited/

Polyamorous Misanthrope, (2016, November 23). Know Thyself.http://www.polyamorousmisanthrope.com/2016/11/23/know-thyself/

Veaux, F (n.d.) Communication in Relationships. https://www.morethantwo.com/communication.html

YouGov (2016, October 3). Young Americans are less wedded to monogamy than their elders. https://today.yougov.com/topics/lifestyle/articles-reports/2016/10/03/young-americans-less-wedded-monogamy

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Lazy Sunday Sex

Erotic fiction inspired by Luna C and Gisha Forza in “Switch Off

My horny lover Luna is insatiable, an ebony beauty who, once she’s in the mood, just can’t keep her hands to herself.

It was a lazy Sunday, nothing much to do. We were hanging out at home on the couch; I was on my phone, going through my social network sites, but Luna had something a little more intimate in mind.

I could tell from the way she kept reaching over and tapping my arm, trying to get my attention. It’s lucky for her that she’s so hot, because she doesn’t have to work too hard to get me interested.

So she starts touching me, trying to slip her fingers inside my T-shirt and stroke my breasts, and her light touch does the trick. I feel myself getting horny and the next thing I know she’s got her tongue in my mouth and I’m squeezing her ass and hoping she’ll take off my pants and lick my slit.

She gets my top down easily and I can feel her fingers on my tit. I follow suit and pull the straps of her dress off her shoulders to play with her beautiful breasts, feeling her nipples against the palms of my hands.

Luna gets me on my back in seconds, climbing onto top of me to kiss me some more. I hitch her skirt up and grab at her ass as she grinds herself against my jeans. Kneeling over my thighs, she gets both of my titties out and licks my nipples. Each time she moves from one to the other, her saliva cools and my nipples stiffen even more.

Just as I’d hoped, she pulls down my pants and gets my legs open – I wasn’t wearing any panties. I watch as she licks my slit, feeling her tongue part my lips and glide over my groove. She gets me wet so fast, and sticks a finger in me, sucking on my clit hard, just the way she knows I like it.

She’s just as horny as I am, stopping for a moment to pull off what’s left of her own clothing. Then she’s on top of me, her hand on my pussy, fingers curled inside my hole, and I’m moaning and gasping, my whole body in lust with her. I look up and admire the way her breasts curve, feeling a deeper desire to fuck her.

I sit up next to her, my legs open, letting her finger fuck me, and I bend over to squeeze her titties and suck on those chocolate-colored nipples, cupping a breast in my hand, feeling its soft weight.

And that drives her so crazy that she starts to really fuck me hard, her hand a blur between my legs. I have to stop sucking on her nipple, it feels too good. With my head back, I gasp and groan and she rubs at my clit, eager to make me cum.

I want to taste her and I get her on her back and straddle her gorgeous face, planting my shaved pussy on her lips. She sticks her tongue right up inside me and for a moment it feels so good that I am unable to do anything. But then I remember her hot pussy right under my face and I get busy with it.

First, I stroke her slit as I bounce slowly back and forth against her tongue. Then, when I see her lips have peeled open and my fingers are wet with her juices, I bend down and taste her, sliding my tongue through her labia. That does the trick for her, she suddenly stops eating me and has to hold onto my ass tight as body delights in my licking.

I cum on her face but I don’t stop. We move back to sitting side by side and I rub her harder, just like she did for me. She wants me so badly her tongue keeps on pressing into my mouth. But now she knows she can have it anyway she wants, and she slides down the couch and throws her legs up in the air, while I lie on my belly. With my face right over her pussy, I finger her, probing her hole, licking her clit, her juices slippery on my fingers, coating my chin. 

I don’t see her cum, her legs are tight together, but I hear her and I feel her. Her body shakes as she orgasms, and we end up in a heap of horny nakedness.

I love lazy Sundays, don’t you?

 

If you enjoy erotic fiction and would like to contribute some of your own, you can email it to fanfiction@metart.com. We don't promise to post it in full, but we will pick out the juiciest bits to share! To see more stories and true confessions, check out our free fiction site, MyErotica.com

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Avoiding pitfalls on a kinky road: introducing new sexual play

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

It’s to be expected that we will learn more about ourselves and develop new interests over time. We change our style, make new friends, and take up new hobbies many times throughout our lives. The same can be said for our sex lives – who wants to have the same sexual experience over and over?

As we change and evolve, it’s inevitable that we find new kinks, fetishes, and turn-ons. It can’t be expected that your partners will discover the same predilections simultaneously, though – so how do you go about asking for what you want?

Here are a few things to keep in mind when embarking on your sexual journey:

  • * When introducing new sexual activities, be sure to talk about it well beforehand. You want to avoid putting your partner on the spot, which could lead them to feel rushed to make a decision or coerced into saying yes.
  • * Be extra clear when discussing what you’re interested in and why it turns you on. Explaining why you’re interested enables them to connect and potentially empathize with your interest. It also allows them to consent to the spirit of what you’re doing, instead of just the activity.
  • * Make sure you actually ask about their interest and willingness, and listen. Sex should be a mutually enjoyable experience and you never want your partner to feel like they have to do something for you. Make sure to accept a “no” without making your partner feel badly. Leave your relationship and hurt feelings out of the conversation.
  • * Set a date! Don’t jump right into bed. Give your partner some time to think about it and settle any doubts before proceeding. This also allows time for anticipation to grow and plans to be made.
  • * Plan. Though sometimes things can be improvised in longstanding kinky relationships, it’s best not to go into something new without a game plan. Be sure to communicate those ideas with your partner and ask for theirs as well.
  • * Consider watching some porn of that genre together. This is half research, half erotic primer – not only does it give your uninitiated partner an idea of what to expect, it might make them more interested!
  • * Check in frequently – before, during, and after. Your shared enjoyment should be your primary concern, and a little proactive checking in will help you avoid potential problems later on down the line.

If your partner is interested in trying something new with you, excellent! If not, there are still options – many people consider hiring sex workers, or consensual non-monogamy, wherein sexual desires can be met outside of the relationship. Regardless of what your tastes are and what you choose to do about them, the most important things to remember are consent, clarity, and communication. Being honest and up front about your desires can often yield exactly what you want, and if you can enjoy that journey with your partner, so much the better. We hope SexArt will give you some fresh ideas to share.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

 

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The Voyeur Inside

Erotic fiction inspired by Alexis Crystal and Juan Lucho in “Mutual Masturbation

Everyone’s got a little bit of a creep inside, right? I wanted to wrap Alexis around my finger before she discovered mine. I almost had her.

Alexis and I had been dating for a few months. We fucked a lot, but it took some time before we started spending nights together. We talked openly about everything and we could stay awake for hours peppering each other with questions. Then one night I stumbled.

“Do you watch porn?” she asked.

“Ummm, not really,” I replied.

“Kind of vague,” she said. “Not that I care either way.”

Technically, I was being honest. There was just a slight complication that prevented my guilty conscience from clarifying. My silence unsettled her.

I woke up in the morning and she was already out of bed. I heard her in the living room and wanted to surprise her with a cup of coffee.

The media stand was open and a stack of my home movies was spread across the floor. Alexis was watching TV on the couch with her back to me. She was the featured attraction in 4K.

It was one of my favorite videos. Alexis had come over after her run, and had left the bathroom door open a crack to let out the steam from her shower. The air was drying her beautiful body as she put on make-up for a night that would end with our first time having sex.

Against my better angels, I had grabbed my camcorder. I panned up from her cute little feet, along those perfect legs, slowly past her sculpted ass and tits, freezing for several minutes at the spot in the foggy mirror reflecting her face mistily.

The camera returned to her butt; and when the screen faded to black she could see the reflection of my outline in the doorway, standing like an asshole with two coffee mugs in my hands. The memory of her look of disgust can still split my heart in two.

“What the fuck is this?” she said. “You’ve been filming me all this time?”

“No, I...” I stammered. I held out a cup of coffee and asked her if we could talk. She slammed it out of my hand and stormed out, grabbing what she could of her belongings on her way.

“Don’t call me, fucking creep,” she said, slamming the door.

I couldn’t bring myself to even pick up the videos. They haunted me for what was the longest month of my life. I thought of burning them. The only reason I didn’t was in case she wanted them back. “You fucking idiot,” I told myself.

I ran arguments through my head to explain my actions. The heart loves. The eyes lust. I feel both for you. They were just ridiculous sentiments masking a simple fact: I liked to watch her.

One night I woke up still buzzing from too many nightcaps. My dick was too hard to ignore, so I hurried down the stairs and popped in my “Alexis montage.” I came all over the couch watching her delicate hands flip through the Sunday paper, her thighs tense up as she stretched in tight jogging shorts, the innocent smile on her face as she leaned over the counter, absorbed in a phone call – ok, there was some nice cleavage too.

I thought of texting her the next day. But her instructions couldn’t have been clearer.

There must have something in the air, though.

My phone pinged.

“Are you still watching those films of me?” said the text from Alexis.

Fuck, I thought, reliving the night before. “Yes,” I typed, wondering if I should qualify my truthfulness with a sorry or something. I wasn’t though. So I sent my text. Transparency or bust.

“I’ve been locking all the doors and windows of my house,” she texted. “I’m closing the shades whenever I’m home.”

“Oh, fuck,” I said, gripping my hair through my fingers and pulling up tightly. Then, a follow-up text caught my falling spirits from a cliff.

“I bought a really pretty dress today,” she texted. “It’s shimmery gold. I want to try it on but I have this nagging feeling that I forgot to lock one of my windows.”

I was out the door with my camera in tow.

Her front door and sliding door were both locked. So were all the first-floor windows—she was going to make this hard on me. The only other window I could conceivably reach was to her bedroom, which overlooked a fairly solid trellis. I survived the climb and thanked the heavens the window was open. She wasn’t in her bedroom, but I could see shadows in the hallway projecting from the guest room.

I pulled out the viewfinder and peered the live camera around the corner. My dick was chubby in my hand even before I saw her naked, except for a pair of black stockings that she was buttoning to a lacy garter belt.

She was wearing high heels and gingerly pierced them through the holes in a black thong. She turned around to see how her ass looked in the mirror. It was magnificent. More black lace covered her beautiful breasts. She put on a foiled dress that lit her up in a golden glow.

I’d been in love. I knew what it felt like. But this went deeper. She was my obsession. My desire to film her was to capture her in a moment that I could literally freeze in a frame. It felt more worshipful than controlling to me.

Alexis had given no indication that she was aware I was in the hallway, but now, without looking at me, she told me to set up the camera in the living room. The scene was set and I was trying to relax on the couch when she walked in the room towards me. She gave me an intimidating look, but it lacked resolve.

“I guess I would rather be watched than lonely,” she said. “Actually, I miss it. I like it.”

She turned around and lifted her dress to show me her ass. “Do you like the look of this?” she asked.

“Yes,” I said, stroking the bulge in my pants.

“You can’t touch it,” she said.

She turned around, holding her dress up. She was rubbing herself over her lace panties.

“Do you like my pussy?” she asked.

“Yes,” I said.

“You can’t have it,” she said.

She pulled off her dress and sat back on the couch, stretching her spread legs toward me. She locked onto my wandering eyes. Her pupils widened as she moved her restless fingers under the wide part of her thong and masturbated. This went on for many minutes until she started to breathe heavily.

“You can have anything you want,” she said. “You just have to ask.”

“Can I touch you?” I said.

She moved her thong aside and let me touch her wet pussy. It was as wet as the kiss she gave me, and I stuck my fingers inside her welcoming cunt as our tongues got reacquainted.

“That big dick of yours is really what I miss,” she whispered into my ear. “I want to hold it.”

I took my pants off and my cock sprung up in her hands. We masturbated each other.

“Fuck me,” I said.

“I mean, you don’t have to say please but at least you can ask me nicely,” she said, looking bratty.

“Will you sit on my fat dick?” I asked.

“Now, that’s more like it,” she said.

She crawled on top of me and took me inside her hot pussy, riding slow and steady. As we fucked, she pulled down her bra and stuck her nipple into my mouth. I latched on and continued to thrust up into her with my striving cock. She turned over and we stretched our legs out on the couch. We banged like clanging bare spoons.

“Can I lick you?” I asked.

Alexis pulled herself off my dick and scooted back on the couch, answering my question with her open legs. Hers was my favorite taste and I ravished her like I hadn’t eaten for months. I jerked myself off while still trying to avoid cumming. My excitement rubbed off on her and she came pretty fast and really hard.

Alexis patted the couch where she wanted me to sit. She sucked my cock lustily, propping her ass up like a porn star. I imagined all the perverts like me who would enjoy watching that.

As I started to whimper—a sure sign of an oncoming explosion—Alexis grabbed my camera. “This big cock needs to be a star,” she said. She stared at the viewfinder with a devious smile and gave me a rapid hand-job until I came hard. The viewfinder faded to black with her tongue lingering on my leaky cock.

“This is going to be a great one for my montage,” she said.

 

About the author: The Junkman is a contributing writer for the MetArt Network, blending his twin passions for erotic storytelling and high-class porn. He shares a range of musings at JunkPixels.com

If you enjoy erotic fiction and would like to contribute some of your own, you can email it to fanfiction@metart.com. We don't promise to post it in full, but we will pick out the juiciest bits to share! To see more stories and true confessions, check out our free fiction site, MyErotica.com

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The importance of kinky sex

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

Voyeurism. Bondage. Cuckolding. Feet. Almost everyone has some kind of kink in their sexual wiring. But where do these predilections come from? And how important are they in the grand schematic of our relationships and sex lives? What happens when you ignore your kinks?

While we can’t place a finger on exactly what creates a fetish or kink, evidence points to these feelings stemming from moments in our formative youth that “crystallize” as part of our identities. This means that we’re likely forming our ideas about sex long before sex itself ever comes into play in our lives.

According to a 2016 survey of over 2000 people in the UK, roughly 75 percent of people have a kinky interest. The importance we place on our kinks varies, of course, depending on how much of a role sex plays in our lives. Some kinks may be a soft interest, easy to brush off. Others, however, can become inextricably linked with our sex drive – sometimes so intensely that they become fetishes that our sex life feels incomplete without. Of course, one can have too much of a good thing; but medical science doesn’t consider paraphilia a problem to be dealt with unless these predilections harm others, or are so strong that they are detrimental to a person’s day-to-day life.

Although sometimes these “unusual” drives can become fixations, for most people sexual fulfilment is important to our relationships and our mental wellbeing. Sexual satisfaction has been repeatedly found to greatly impact people’s quality of life. Though it is unclear if the relationship is causative or corollary (or a combination of the two), people who report high sexual satisfaction also report higher satisfaction in their romantic relationships. What better reason is there to get busy?

Our sex drive is a physiological function that co-evolved to meet our psychological needs for security, self-esteem, and connection, and our kinks are a part of that drive. While sex isn’t a need in and of itself (no one dies from lack of sex, no matter what your high school boyfriend tried to tell you) it leads us to feel connected and secure with our partners, increases oxytocin and serotonin levels and decreases testosterone and prefrontal cortex activity. Moreover, people in consensual BDSM relationships were found to have lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol and also reported greater feelings of relationship closeness and intimacy after their sexual play. In short, having a sex life that we’re happy with makes us happy – and happy people live longer, healthier lives.

The fulfilment of your sex drive is intimately linked to your psychological wellbeing, which is fundamentally linked to your physical wellbeing. This means that, if you look at it the right way, fulfilling your kinks is just as important to your mental health as say, hugging your family or petting your dog. Take time to share your interests with your partner, watch an erotic video, or read a sexy story. Of course no one is obligated to share your kinks with you, but exploring them – on your own or with a partner – is a task essential to your quality of life.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

 

REFERENCES:

Aaron, M. (2018, May 30). Growing Up Kinky: Research Shows How Kink Identity Is Formed. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201805/growing-kinky-research-shows-how-kink-identity-is-formed

Borresen, K. (2018, July 26). The Difference Between A Fetish And Kink, According To Sex Experts. https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/difference-between-fetish-and-kink_us_5b58a59ae4b0b15aba94749b

Emery, L. R. (2018, April 25). This Is The Most Popular Fetish In The UK. https://www.bustle.com/articles/190171-how-many-people-have-a-sexual-fetish-its-more-common-than-you-think-but-its-still

Flynn, K. E., Lin, L., Bruner, D. W., Cyranowski, J. M., Hahn, E. A., Jeffery, D. D., Reese, J.B., Reeve, B.B., Shelby, R.A., Weinfurt, K. P. (2016, November). Sexual Satisfaction and the Importance of Sexual Health to Quality of Life Throughout the Life Course of US Adults. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5075511/

Gray, E. (2017, December 07). Is This Type Of Sex Pathological? https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/03/sexual-fetishes-dsm-v_n_3008421.html

Manson, M. (2018, July 08). Sex and Our Psychological Needs. https://markmanson.net/sex-and-our-psychological-needs

Oaklander, M. (2016, February 11). Do Happy People Really Live Longer? http://time.com/4217052/do-happy-people-really-live-longer/

Sagarin, B. J., Cutler, B., Cutler, N., Lawler-Sagarin, K. A., Matuszewich, L. (2009, April). Hormonal changes and couple bonding in consensual sadomasochistic activity. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18563549

Shpancer, N. (2014, February 16). Sexual Satisfaction: Highly Valued, Poorly Understood. (n.d.). https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insight-therapy/201402/sexual-satisfaction-highly-valued-poorly-understood

 

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Sexy Suzie Carina helps make Ariel Piper Fawn’s dream come true…

Imagine this: you’re naked and blindfolded, quivering with anticipation as a sensitive pair of hands begins to stroke you in the most sensuous way. But wait – now you can feel two pairs of hands, two pairs of lips on your trembling body; you can smell the exotic perfume and feel the silky skin of two unknown lovers. What could be more exciting?

This is the situation that Asian cutie Katana found herself in, but her incredible seduction has a mind-blowing twist at the heart of it. Until today, Katana has no idea that her mysterious lovers were none other than legendary erotic star Ariel Piper Fawn, and top model Suzie Carina, who agreed to come out of retirement just to help bring Ariel’s personal fantasy to life.

Ariel’s Secret: Project 1 – Katana” is spellbinding, as the nervous subject is reduced to a trembling orgasmic mess by the skilful tongues and fingers of her lovers. With her eyes covered, her other senses are heightened to an almost unbearably intense level, giving her an unforgettable experience. But as viewers, we also get to see stunning Ariel – beautiful breasts bared – and Suzie teasing each other with hot kisses and caresses as they work their magic on their plaything.

It’s a dream brought to life for SexArt’s superstar model-turned-producer Ariel, and a stirring scenario to watch; we can only imagine how exciting it must be for Katana to finally discover the identity of her two mysterious lovers!

“Ariel’s Secret: Project 1 – Katana” is available on SexArt from Friday, with more episodes of this unique erotic project coming soon.

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SexArt movie of the month: September 2018

September is the month when the weather turns cooler and you start looking for an excuse to stay indoors. And SexArt has provided the perfect excuse to stay in, with so many hot movies of gorgeous girls that make you want to cozy up and get comfortable, if you know what I mean.

Luscious redhead Linda Sweet and ebony beauty Luna C make comfortable look like it’s the best thing in the world in Andrej Lupin’s deliciously intimate “Close Up 2”; while stunning Gisha Forza is utterly captivating in “Waterflow,” her incredible body irresistible under the cascading water as Nick Ross fucks her hard.

Lupin’s four-part series “Office” has been a treat for anyone who’s ever whiled away the hours at their desk fantasizing about sex with their horny coworkers. Episode one was the stand-out for me, with insatiable Alexis Crystal getting screwed up against the wall in the restroom, starting out nervous about getting caught and ending up moaning her way through an explosive orgasm without a care in the world!

Alexis appeared in another sensational movie this month, Alis Locanta’s “Mutual Masturbation,” which paired her with tattooed stud Juan Lucho. The high-energy humpers confine themselves to watching each other for as long as they can, but they’re only human and eventually succumb to a wild fuck-and-suck session that leaves them both sticky and sated.

A movie starring super-popular Emylia Argan is always an event, but in “Stimulate” we have something very special indeed, her first boy-girl scene since the classic “Snow Fun” series back in 2013! Michael Fly is a lucky man to find busty Emylia in his bed, masturbating as she waits for him to come eat her pussy and then fuck her into a state of utter bliss. Emylia brings all her natural charm to this authentic and exciting encounter.

But my favorite movie of the month has to be episode four of Andrej Lupin’s superb series “Neighbors.” Starring vivacious redhead Amarna Miller, the series showcases her acting talent with a sweet and believable lesbian love story, culminating in a very exciting climax  – a threesome with hot brunette Rosaline Rosa and live wire Gina Gerson. If you’re already familiar with Gina you’ll know this petite starlet brings the most spectacular sexual energy and charisma to everything she does, and this is a classic threeway, the girls driving each other wild with their fingers and tongues, and having a whole lot of sexy dripping wet fun.

So, did I pick your favorite SexArt movie of September 2018?

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Submissive Katy pleases her Mistress

Erotic fiction inspired by Tina Kay and Katy Sky in “Dominate

Mistress Tina tells her slave Katy she’s been disobedient. “Do you know what happens to very naughty girls like you?” she asks.

She binds Katy’s mouth with a white cloth, ties it tight behind her head. “Shh, I said no talking.” Now she has the submissive blonde where she wants her, lying on the bed with her legs spread open, dressed in her pristine white bra and panties.

Glamorous brunette Tina looks every inch the domme in her black leather dress. She has her sub turn around and get on her hands and knees. Katy’s perfect ass is all ready for a spanking, and Mistress Tina uses her riding crop, cracking it on her cheeks loudly until they redden.

Katy is a good slave who responds well to the touch of her mistress. Leaning back and looking over her shoulder as Mistress moves closer, she moans through her gag when her bra is yanked off roughly. Mistress Tina grabs her panties like reins and pulls them hard, stretching them far from her ass. Then she rips them off, pulling them so Katy has to move to let them fly from her ankles.

Now she’s all primed and ready for Mistress Tina, ass up, face pushed into the pillows. Mistress pulls up her dress all the way over her perky breasts, kneeling beside her and rubbing her shaved pussy.

Mistress loves ass play. She spits on Katy’s asshole and rubs her fiercely, pushing her index finger right up Katy’s soaked pussy. She pushes Katy’s face into the pillow with her other hand as she finger-bangs her gaping pussy.

“Now you will taste yourself,” she says, pulling the gag away from Katy’s mouth and making her suck on her pussy-wet fingers. Back go her fingers, deep inside Katy’s pussy; she presses her other hand over her sub’s mouth to stifle her moans.

Katy’s punishment is laced with pleasure as Mistress yanks her back onto her knees, asking her if she likes what she is doing to her. All Katy can do is gasp yes as Tina finger fucks her harder and harder. Mistress throws her back onto the bed and squats over one thigh, rubbing her clit hard, spanking her pussy, curling her fingers inside her hole.

“You want to cum?” she asks of her slave. “Go on then!”

The dutiful slave does as she’s told, much to the approval of her mistress.

And now it is time for the sub to earn her keep, kneeling between Tina’s thighs and lapping at her pussy. Mistress demands that she look at her as she licks her, whipping her ass with the riding crop. She makes Katy work hard at eating her pussy, pulling her face tighter against her slit and fucking her mouth.

Tina dominates Katy in every way, with her pussy, her hands and her voice. She makes Katy finger fuck her, squatting over her and riding her fingers, pushing her own thumb into her slave’s mouth to watch her suck on it.

And just before she orgasms, Tina grabs Katy’s hand and pulls it from her pussy, laughing. “Not yet…”

No, she won’t cum until she’s had Katy’s tongue deep in her pussy. She pushes Katy onto her back and grinds on her face, noisy and full of demands. Katy sticks her tongue out while Tina rocks back and forth, using her for her own pleasure. She cums on Katy’s face and moves back down her body, grabbing the gag and putting it in place once more. Slaves should be seen and not heard…

 

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Want better sex? Stop calling it “foreplay.”

About the author: Allison Leigh is a pornographer, producer, polyamorist, and professional kinkster. When sexuality is business, business is fun! 

From magazines in the checkout line to scholarly articles and talk shows, the conversation about good sex is hard to avoid. Everyone wants better sex, and every suggestion comes back to the same thing – foreplay. But perhaps part of the problem is the way we’re framing that conversation. What would happen if we stopped calling it “foreplay”?

It’s commonly said that the way to make sex better for women is foreplay. Touching, kissing, oral sex – all of these fall under the foreplay umbrella. Calling these foreplay suggests that men can or should do them for women, but that they’re not a part of the “real deal” of penetrative sex. But why should these things be optional?

Sex is supposed to be an activity that is pleasurable for both partners. If what we call “foreplay” is the part of sex that makes women more likely to orgasm, then using language that makes it seem like it’s an extra, skippable step is only harmful to female sexuality. Studies have shown that men, on average, take 2–10 minutes to reach orgasm, while women take an average of twenty minutes. Additionally, women who have had one orgasm in a session are more likely to have another. However, according to Planned Parenthood, 30 percent of women have had trouble reaching an orgasm, and as many as 80 percent have difficulty reaching orgasm through vaginal intercourse. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could close that gap?

Perhaps if we stopped treating the non-penetrative aspects of sex like they’re a chore that one can opt out of, sex would be more equitable and enjoyable for both men and women. After all, who doesn’t love making their partner orgasm? Let’s stop calling the parts of sex that women find enjoyable “foreplay” and start calling them what they really are – good, enjoyable SEX.

This post first appeared on MyErotica.com

 

REFERENCES:

Lenhardt, K. (2017, March 17). Interesting Facts for the Curious Mind. https://www.factretriever.com/orgasm-facts

Sargent, C. (2017, January 19). Can we stop calling it “foreplay”? Because it’s sex, straight up. https://hellogiggles.com/love-sex/foreplay-isnt-actually-foreplay-at-all-its-sex-and-should-be-treated-as-such/

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SexArt wins top XBIZ Europa awards!

We’re so excited to announce that SexArt won two major trophies at the 1st Annual XBIZ Europa Awards in Berlin.

The award for BEST SEX SCENE – LESBIAN went to our movie “Jia,” starring gorgeous redhead Jia Lissa and stunning brunette Lexi Layo, directed by Andrej Lupin and produced by Ariel Piper Fawn.

What’s more, SEXART won the impressive accolade: EROTIC SITE OF THE YEAR!

We couldn’t be more happy and proud. Thanks to all who voted for us, and to our wonderful members for your support. We love what we do here and we hope you do too, so you’d better believe we’re going to do everything in our power to live up to the title in 2018, with the highest caliber erotic filmmaking, and the most beautiful girls yet. You won’t want to miss a moment.

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